Do you have the ability to make someone fall in love with you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I do know someone that men follow like the Pied Piper. She is close to 50, singularly unattractive, smokes, drinks to excess, but men seem to find her irresistible. She is a throwback to Haight-Ashbury and dresses like a Hippie.

Hmm. She got weed? Just sayin' where there's smoke...

[Anonymous]

Nope.

[Anonymous]

Some people have are really charming. It's not rocket science.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why would they need to have so many people fall in love with them if their love lives were satisfying?

I'd think their tricks were more impressive if each got the one guy of her choice to fall in love with her, and then to stay with her for the next 50 years.

Exactly

[Anonymous]

Yes.

In my early-mid twenties I had what my friends referred to as "fairy dust". Almost every guy I talked to, young or middle aged had a tendency to act goofy around me. If I wanted to, I could've made them my boyfriends very easily. I think the biggest contributor was the sheer power of youth. From 21-25 I blossomed. I was not a party-er or a drinker so compared to other girls, I was extremely well preserved. I also looked younger than my age. So youthful beauty + looking even younger than my age was the secret ingredient. Apart from that, that was a phase in my life where I was looking for attention. I dressed in tight, fitted clothes wore my hair long and silky and had dark kohl lined eyes. Men were putty in my hands. I was also flirty and giggly and had a fun careless attitude.

I'm 28 now and married for a year. The immense attention I received stopped around 27. I also had to deal with some major life crisis so it may be that or maybe I lost my looks.

Eitherway, yes, some women definitely have this quality and most likely in their early twenties.

[Anonymous]

My dh knew a girl in his college who got proposed to 3 times! I have looked her up on facebook and although she isn't a great physical beauty, she keeps in shape, is very feminine and dolled up and has a big bright smile. She also seems very kind and maternal.

[Anonymous]

There is no single thing that a person can do to get anyone they want to fall in love with them. Nothing.

Because attraction is purely based on chemistry. It is there, or it just isn't.

Without chemistry, there is air.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes.

In my early-mid twenties I had what my friends referred to as "fairy dust". Almost every guy I talked to, young or middle aged had a tendency to act goofy around me. If I wanted to, I could've made them my boyfriends very easily. I think the biggest contributor was the sheer power of youth. From 21-25 I blossomed. I was not a party-er or a drinker so compared to other girls, I was extremely well preserved. I also looked younger than my age. So youthful beauty + looking even younger than my age was the secret ingredient. Apart from that, that was a phase in my life where I was looking for attention. I dressed in tight, fitted clothes wore my hair long and silky and had dark kohl lined eyes. Men were putty in my hands. I was also flirty and giggly and had a fun careless attitude.

I'm 28 now and married for a year. The immense attention I received stopped around 27. I also had to deal with some major life crisis so it may be that or maybe I lost my looks.

Eitherway, yes, some women definitely have this quality and most likely in their early twenties.

You are too young to have lost your looks! It probably has more to do with the fact that you're married and no longer out there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think women who have a life of their own, are happy and caring have the easiest time with this. Notice I didn't say women who are hot, smart, rich, skinny, or anything else.

Yup

[Anonymous]

Yes, I use the force. This is the vagina you're looking for. Works every time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes.

In my early-mid twenties I had what my friends referred to as "fairy dust". Almost every guy I talked to, young or middle aged had a tendency to act goofy around me. If I wanted to, I could've made them my boyfriends very easily. I think the biggest contributor was the sheer power of youth. From 21-25 I blossomed. I was not a party-er or a drinker so compared to other girls, I was extremely well preserved. I also looked younger than my age. So youthful beauty + looking even younger than my age was the secret ingredient. Apart from that, that was a phase in my life where I was looking for attention. I dressed in tight, fitted clothes wore my hair long and silky and had dark kohl lined eyes. Men were putty in my hands. I was also flirty and giggly and had a fun careless attitude.

I'm 28 now and married for a year. The immense attention I received stopped around 27. I also had to deal with some major life crisis so it may be that or maybe I lost my looks.

Eitherway, yes, some women definitely have this quality and most likely in their early twenties.

You are too young to have lost your looks! It probably has more to do with the fact that you're married and no longer out there.

Haha. I hope so! Even when I get dressed up I don't get the same effect although I don't really put in the same effort. These days I don't even wear makeup to work!

My priorities have shifted.

[Anonymous]

I'm 44, married, and still attract men. I am good looking, but most importantly, I am very kind and really outgoing.

[Anonymous]

When I was twenty...yes.

[Anonymous]

I could make most guys fall in lust with me when I was young, but not real love. I've only received that from one man, and I married him. I had lots of fun with all those other dudes but I'm so very happy now.

[Anonymous]

People fall in love with people who make them feel good about themselves.

I've always been good at "making people fall in love with me," but only the ones I really admired, which I always let show.