The One Where She Finds Out Her Boyfriend Of 8 Months Has a Girlfriend

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I just can't believe it.
How do you look someone in the eye and tell them you love them and it be all a lie?
How do you meet friends and family and claim to be so happy and all the while you are carrying on the same way?

OMG. He was bringing his Girlfriend around his friends and family. And then he would bring you around to meet his friends and family???? No one ever said anything and they actually treated YOU as his serious girlfriend?? All while helping him hide the fact that he had another steady girlfriend??

That is crazy. That whole group of people sounds nuts. Run. Do not look back. Run.

He met my friends and some of my family, my sisters who I'm close with and played the perfect boyfriend. I met some of his friends, and no no one ever said a thing.

[Anonymous]

How did he have time for both of you?

I'm so sorry, OP. What a d-bag.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ages of all those involved.

Why does this matter? Is it some how okay if he's 25 vs 35?

Apparently you can't fucking read because where did I write that it was ok?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ages of all those involved.

Why does this matter? Is it some how okay if he's 25 vs 35?

Apparently you can't fucking read because where did I write that it was ok?

Go away!

[Anonymous]

Full story with details please. He's a dog.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How did he have time for both of you?

I'm so sorry, OP. What a d-bag.

I don't know. I just don't know. He and I both have jobs that require long and odd hours that required scheduling time to be together. I guess he wasn't working all the times he said he was.
I trusted him though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ages of all those involved.

Why does this matter? Is it some how okay if he's 25 vs 35?

Apparently you can't fucking read because where did I write that it was ok?

Go away!

You go away. I asked a simple question and was attacked by another poster.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ages of all those involved.

Why does this matter? Is it some how okay if he's 25 vs 35?

Apparently you can't fucking read because where did I write that it was ok?

Go away!

You go away. I asked a simple question and was attacked by another poster.

How are ages relevant?

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry this happened to you.

That being said, the over-dramatic thread title indicates you are the kind who absolutely relishes drama.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry this happened to you.

That being said, the over-dramatic thread title indicates you are the kind who absolutely relishes drama.

Ignore this one. Some people are assholes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Full story with details please. He's a dog.

I met him online back in the spring.. I know cheesy. But, I'm not the type of woman who goes out to a bar or club or anywhere that guys notice and ask out. I'm just not. I finally felt ready to try dating again after taking some time off. He was one of the few contacts. I can't say things moved too fast or anything I was comfortable and I was happy.
As I've said he met my friends and my sisters, and I met his friends. Things were going well until today when I get a message from his girlfriend going off on me saying they've been together almost 3 years and she won't give him up without a fight calling me all sorts of names.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She knows. Which is how I know he has a girlfriend.

Wait! Did the girlfriend know that he had you as his side girlfriend??

I didn't know he had a girlfriend at all. She some how found out about me , and contacted me all pissed off.

O.k. it doesn't sound as though his girlfriend and his family were part of the charade. They didn't know about you.

Sounds as though you introduced him to your family and your friends. He introduced you to some of his friends but not his family which is actually pretty typical of these jerks.

I'm sorry. Move forward and don't look back. I wouldn't speak to that guy ever again. What a loser he is!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry this happened to you.

That being said, the over-dramatic thread title indicates you are the kind who absolutely relishes drama.

Ignore this one. Some people are assholes.

Oh, come on. She's acting like this is a Very Special episode of "Friends."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She knows. Which is how I know he has a girlfriend.

Wait! Did the girlfriend know that he had you as his side girlfriend??

I didn't know he had a girlfriend at all. She some how found out about me , and contacted me all pissed off.

Op, the exact same thing happened to me. She emailed me. We met. He told us both the same lies, gave us the same gifts at Christmas, talked about the children he'd have with both of us, etc. it took a good amount of time for me to even think about it without feeling line I was going to throw up (many months).

I'm so sorry you are going through this. You are so much better off without him. I've come to realize the guy I dated was a narcissist. It was all about him and his who.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She knows. Which is how I know he has a girlfriend.

Wait! Did the girlfriend know that he had you as his side girlfriend??

I didn't know he had a girlfriend at all. She some how found out about me , and contacted me all pissed off.

Op, the exact same thing happened to me. She emailed me. We met. He told us both the same lies, gave us the same gifts at Christmas, talked about the children he'd have with both of us, etc. it took a good amount of time for me to even think about it without feeling line I was going to throw up (many months).

I'm so sorry you are going through this. You are so much better off without him. I've come to realize the guy I dated was a narcissist. It was all about him and his who.

This was us. He talked about being a father and all that. I don't have much dating experience, and very little luck with men, so I guess I was easy to fool and fell for it.