The reason women file for divorce more than men

[Anonymous]

If you want to know why women file for divorce, check out the Ashley Madison user lists - men cheat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you want to know why women file for divorce, check out the Ashley Madison user lists - men cheat.

Women cheat more because they can. They don't have to go on a website.

[Anonymous]

Once the kids are older, and menopause makes your nurturing hormones fade, you lose patience for dealing with the man-child side of your husband, as well as feeling the accumulated drain of all the years you have spent caretaking kids, spouse, and elderly parents. If you have financial independence, you can quit the spouse job. I'd do it if I could.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you want to know why women file for divorce, check out the Ashley Madison user lists - men cheat.

Women cheat more because they can. They don't have to go on a website.

The women I know work and do the vast majority of kid stuff. Their husbands (or ex husbands) work "long hours" and "travel" for work. It wasn't the women cheating. And the men did not want to end the marriage. They saw no problem continuing like this. They also did not understand why their ex-wives didn't want to sit with them at the children's plays and sporting events.

[Anonymous]

Women file because men are lazy... Plain and simple. Even a man who leaves will not file, he will just abandon. He is fine not filing... Why would he file? What is in it for him. He can tell his girlfriend that he is still married and can't marry her. As soon as the divorce papers are final he has some bitch breathing down his neck to get married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Once the kids are older, and menopause makes your nurturing hormones fade, you lose patience for dealing with the man-child side of your husband, as well as feeling the accumulated drain of all the years you have spent caretaking kids, spouse, and elderly parents. If you have financial independence, you can quit the spouse job. I'd do it if I could.

+1

[Anonymous]

Women file more because the real ass busting work of marriage falls on them, and in some relationships the juice ain't worth the squeeze, especially if the women has an income.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:disagree

We get tired of having that extra child plus I am done cooking, cleaning, doing everything I no longer want to do.

I want to finally be me.

I totally agree. And we know we can support ourselves without them.

Most men aren't going to file, even if they're unhappy, because the wives generally take care of them and help them to maintain their lifestyle. They may cheat, they may complain, but they don't want to rock the boat, either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:disagree

We get tired of having that extra child plus I am done cooking, cleaning, doing everything I no longer want to do.

I want to finally be me.

I totally agree. And we know we can support ourselves without them.

Most men aren't going to file, even if they're unhappy, because the wives generally take care of them and help them to maintain their lifestyle. They may cheat, they may complain, but they don't want to rock the boat, either.

Amen, sister! This is my DH! I do everything for him. I sacrificed my career to be the "default parent" for the kids, now he makes a ton of money and my career is crap. Lately, he's been traveling a ton so never around and I feel absolutely no connection. Now he's sick. Boo f'ing hoo. He came home at 6:30 tonight and went to bed. I'm so frustrated with him. I moved for his job and have no friends here. I have things I need to talk about and he has no time for me. Awesome. He'll probably leave me for a young, hot woman and I'll be broke because I took a lower paying job (that I hate and is not at all challenging) to move here. At least it's a community property state.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:disagree

We get tired of having that extra child plus I am done cooking, cleaning, doing everything I no longer want to do.

I want to finally be me.

Yep.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:
I want to finally be me.

Old, saggy, and invisible to men?

Yep. Who cares what men think? Done with that BS.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I want to finally be me.

Old, saggy, and invisible to men?

Yep. Who cares what men think? Done with that BS.

Agree. Plus I'm incredibly fit and feeling great! Don't need an old geezer hanging around to enjoy life!

Lucky for me, I'm still pretty fond of my old geezer and he has my back, but if anything happens to him, I am done with married life!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:disagree

We get tired of having that extra child plus I am done cooking, cleaning, doing everything I no longer want to do.

I want to finally be me.

This seems to be the cause of 90% of the woman initiated divorces in my social circle. The other 10% are a mix of male infidelity, the husband's mental illness, or emotional & physical spousal abuse of the wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Once the kids are older, and menopause makes your nurturing hormones fade, you lose patience for dealing with the man-child side of your husband, as well as feeling the accumulated drain of all the years you have spent caretaking kids, spouse, and elderly parents. If you have financial independence, you can quit the spouse job. I'd do it if I could.

Hell fucking yeah

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Internet dating has changed it all. You can separate, sit on your tush in your PJs drinking beer and picking your nose and have date with a new guy that night after you wash your hair and brush your teeth. People used to pity single women in their 40s. Now I think we've gone the other extreme and a lot of women see their single friends traveling and living life to it's fullest with or without a man and they envy it. Also, when your working crazy hours and moving and shaking at work it's a lot harder to put up with shit than it is if you have a lower key job. I think I read women who make more money than the guy are more likely to divorce in part because men still do less than 50% of the house stuff even when working less than the wife.

This is the crux of it. (And sometimes why traditional marriages work more smoothly...) No one wants to be carrying deadweight. Whenever folks argue that "women don't want their DH to be SAHD/want an alpha, etc." I think NO, what women don't want is a crap SAHD!

Yep, my fiancé is a teacher so he manages the household in the summer to give me a break (I'm also a teacher, but work fewer hours). He's awesome at it. Better than me in fact. If I could make enough for him to SAH, I'd do it in a heartbeat. He ironed sh*t I didn't even know got ironed.