Will my single dad BF leave me to have more bio kids?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, I guess the reason I thought he was wishy washy on the topic of having more kids, is abdicating that decision to me. That if he eventually married another woman who wanted kids, that he would be fine with that, too.

I guess I am concerned he will be one of those men who turns 50 or 55 and decides he wants to be with a younger woman and having babies lets everyone know what a stud he still is.

Do you see any other inklings that he may be immature or have issues with self-esteem? Because that's what the highlighted screams to me. If he's a normal, healthy guy, try not to worry about this scenario too much.

[Anonymous]

Does he mention time and time again that he would like a sibling for his son?? Do you see him wanting more kids a huge deal in his eyes?

If so, then I agree. He should move on NOW since the longer he stays around, the more invested you will become to him. And the deeper the hurt will ensue later on.

Have a heart to heart with him and talk this out in depth.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, I guess the reason I thought he was wishy washy on the topic of having more kids, is abdicating that decision to me. That if he eventually married another woman who wanted kids, that he would be fine with that, too.

I guess I am concerned he will be one of those men who turns 50 or 55 and decides he wants to be with a younger woman and having babies lets everyone know what a stud he still is.

or maybe just wants a younger sexier woman who has more respect for him than you do

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, I guess the reason I thought he was wishy washy on the topic of having more kids, is abdicating that decision to me. That if he eventually married another woman who wanted kids, that he would be fine with that, too.

I guess I am concerned he will be one of those men who turns 50 or 55 and decides he wants to be with a younger woman and having babies lets everyone know what a stud he still is.

Whoa, if you really think he's this type, it won't matter whether or not you two have a kid together. Don't focus on whether he has a hidden desire for more children. Focus on whether he is a trustworthy guy in search of a life partner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, I guess the reason I thought he was wishy washy on the topic of having more kids, is abdicating that decision to me. That if he eventually married another woman who wanted kids, that he would be fine with that, too.

I guess I am concerned he will be one of those men who turns 50 or 55 and decides he wants to be with a younger woman and having babies lets everyone know what a stud he still is.

Is this concern based on anything you have observed in your BF? Because this isn't giving him much credit. I would be very offended if my partner thought I might be capable of this. Geez.