I think I may be gay?

[Anonymous]

I have always gotten along really well with lesbians but I have never found myself attracted to them or curious about being with them.

[Anonymous]

A lot of husbands would be fine with you exploring with other women. A lot of husbands wouldn't. OP, what kind of husband do you have? Can you talk to him about this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe. Or bisexual. But what you certainly are is married. I'm gay and have always known, but some people do figure it out later in life. It sounds like more than anything you need to figure out what to do about your husband.

Agree with this. Sexual orientation can be fluid for some people, especially women. Dd has shifted back and forth from straight to to bi to lesbian to bi. The one thing for sure is that she will never think of herself as only heterosexual again. But this pp is right. It doesn't matter what you are, you've got a husband and you have to sort that out.