Being open upfront

[Anonymous]

A general conversation - not about what you feel for/see in her specifically, but what you were looking for when you signed up for online dating "I signed up for EHarmony because I wasn't meeting anyone I liked enough to get past a few dates with in real life, and I'm hoping to find an actual relationship" is fine.

It's also OK to let her know you like her - text daily, don't let too many days pass between dates before you plan the next one, etc. Hell, bring her flowers or something on the 4th or 5th date if you want to. But don't make her feel pressured. The exclusivity conversation shouldn't be happening until minimum 8-10 dates unless you're both feeling so strongly you can't hold back. And, since it's you who is wanting to ask her how she feels, it doesn't sound like she is feeling so strongly she can't hold back. But it does sound like she likes you. So slow your roll. Too much, too fast could kill what the two of you are building.