Religious beliefs and second wedding

[Anonymous]

Second and third marriages? Not going to work out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Second and third marriages? Not going to work out.

Johnny Cash's second and June Carter Cash's third marriage worked out for them- 35 years until separated by death. I agree the odds aren't in their favor but it's not impossible.

[Anonymous]

OP here. Well, they love each other. Should they not try? We are all very sad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Well, they love each other. Should they not try? We are all very sad.

Obviously love wasn't enough for the first three marriages. I'm Team Sister.

[Anonymous]

Luke 6:37
"Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.

Team Brother

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Well, they love each other. Should they not try? We are all very sad.

Obviously love wasn't enough for the first three marriages. I'm Team Sister.

OP here. She pretty much punishes her brother more then new SIL. We don't know what happened to her previous marriages but we do know what happened to brother's. I am not madly in love with his choice but it's his choice and we as a family should stand there for him, don't you think?
I don't know anymore.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Well, they love each other. Should they not try? We are all very sad.

Obviously love wasn't enough for the first three marriages. I'm Team Sister.

OP here. She pretty much punishes her brother more then new SIL. We don't know what happened to her previous marriages but we do know what happened to brother's. I am not madly in love with his choice but it's his choice and we as a family should stand there for him, don't you think?
I don't know anymore.

Ideally she would support your brother but maybe she's just done with the treatment of marriage like it's a novelty. As in, if you two are still together in three years and/or have kids then my family and I will be more accepting.

She's being judgmental, but I don't blame her with what little info. I'm reading here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Well, they love each other. Should they not try? We are all very sad.

Obviously love wasn't enough for the first three marriages. I'm Team Sister.

OP here. She pretty much punishes her brother more then new SIL. We don't know what happened to her previous marriages but we do know what happened to brother's. I am not madly in love with his choice but it's his choice and we as a family should stand there for him, don't you think?
I don't know anymore.

Ideally she would support your brother but maybe she's just done with the treatment of marriage like it's a novelty. As in, if you two are still together in three years and/or have kids then my family and I will be more accepting.

She's being judgmental, but I don't blame her with what little info. I'm reading here.

They will not have children. And they have been together already 2.5 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Second and third marriages? Not going to work out.

+1,2,3.... the whole thing is a pointless exercise. Just look at the statistics. Go just to enjoy the party or don't go, the odds of a 10th anniversary are virtually null.

[Anonymous]

So am I getting this right: your brother behaved badly in his first wedding and is marrying a woman you don't like that much? What kind of wedding is it-small family and friends or big blowout?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So am I getting this right: your brother behaved badly in his first wedding and is marrying a woman you don't like that much? What kind of wedding is it-small family and friends or big blowout?

Medium size. I personally think they should have just gone to the court, as my family needs to fly out for this thing.But that's what they want. I don't know what to do...

[Anonymous]

There's really no point in worrying about any of this. You cannot control the outcome of any of it. Your sister's choices are her own. Your brother's choices are his own. This is all just drama for nothing.
Do what feels right to you, go and enjoy the party.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There's really no point in worrying about any of this. You cannot control the outcome of any of it. Your sister's choices are her own. Your brother's choices are his own. This is all just drama for nothing.
Do what feels right to you, go and enjoy the party.

Thank you!

[Anonymous]

OP again. I want to add one more detail into the story. They were engaged last winter and he broke off the engagement. So this year they got engaged again.I know I know...

[Anonymous]

I am even scared to book tickets...