How often do you think about a past love?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You miss yourself at that age. Remembering this guy is a way of remembering yourself.

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[Anonymous]

All the time. They represent who I was at the time and what I was going through, and as a reflective person, I feel like it's natural to reflect on key players at different key times in your life. I have no desire to be with any of them, I think if I had a gun to my head telling me to choose someone from my past to be with besides my husband, it would be someone I never dated but was maybe just good friends with. There's no better way to see someone's warts than by dating them!
I'm grateful for how things turned out, and even if I ever hit a rough patch, all I have to do is look at my daughter. None of those exes could have given me her. But do I reflect on those days a lot? Absolutely.

[Anonymous]

I'm in an attention and sex starved marriage and I'm definitely the higher drive partner out of the two of us.

I have sex dreams occasionally about an ex and I'll wake up frustrated and missing the way he made me feel. Him not being able to take his eyes off of me, the way I could get him excited with just a hug and a kiss. How much he loved foreplay, the stretching and full feeling from his enormous endowment and having to beg him to go slow. The way he groaned in my ear. I do think of that stuff ovcasionally, but if I were getting attention in my marriage I'd probably never give it a second thought.