Attractive marriage counselor?

[Anonymous]

OP: Are there attraction issues in your marriage? Are you concerned that she may provide biased opinions?

[Anonymous]

OP

Find a plane Jane I am sure there are some. Or a male. Listen to your gut.

[Anonymous]

OP, highly attractive therapists and doctors make me uncomfortable, even when I'm not there for marital issues and just for my own items. Male or female. It's not like I think they are going to be mean to me or try to steal my spouse or anything, it just makes me feel like I can't open up as much right off the bat.

I look for the most qualified person, but in a situation where I have multiple good choices (which is usually the case for therapists and general practitioners, not so much for specialists), if I have a photo of them, I tend to tilt slightly away from any that are particularly attractive.

Just want you to feel not crazy/not alone at least.

[Anonymous]

You people are nuts.

[Anonymous]

OP, none of these people will look as good in person as they do in their photos.

[Anonymous]

I get how you feel, OP. I've never been to marriage counseling, but I've been to several different therapists on my own, and I am yet to find someone that I feel 100 percent comfortable with. I think this is why therapy never really worked for me. I think you have to feel really comfortable with your therapist in order for therapy to work. If you have some type of a hang up about them, you aren't going to be able to really open up.