Sister drugging mother

[Anonymous]

Just go out there and see for yourself. Surprise visit. Don't let sis know you're coming. That is what you have to do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Won't only= wontonly

I and relatives heard mother on phone. Sister has history of drunken tirades.

None of this matters. You have to go out to your mom and find out what's going on. What are the meds? Talk with her doctor. You can't handle this from afar.

I need only respondents who are unbiased and familiar with both sides. Those who have been through it are familiar with certain ramifications I am not at liberty to spell out. Thank you for your anticipated understanding (unless you are the sister, of course!!!) I have no problem getting a lawyer if no other respondent chimes in.

I have no idea what you are trying to say with this response.

[Anonymous]

I need only respondents who are unbiased and familiar with both sides. Those who have been through it are familiar with certain ramifications I am not at liberty to spell out. Thank you for your anticipated understanding (unless you are the sister, of course!!!) I have no problem getting a lawyer if no other respondent chimes in.


I have no idea what you are trying to say with this response.

Me either.

[Anonymous]

Why don't you fly out there to see what's going on? If your sister wants your mom out of her house then that's her choice. You can always move your mom in with you if you don't want her in a facility. It sounds like your sister might be overwhelmed. If she really is some kind of horrid drunk, why would letting your mom live with her be a choice in the first place?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I need only respondents who are unbiased and familiar with both sides. Those who have been through it are familiar with certain ramifications I am not at liberty to spell out. Thank you for your anticipated understanding (unless you are the sister, of course!!!) I have no problem getting a lawyer if no other respondent chimes in.


I have no idea what you are trying to say with this response.

Me either.

It seems to me that she is hoping a poster will take care of the problem for her.
She needs to get to her mom now and assess the situation in person.

[Anonymous]

So are you implying that your sister wants to keep your mom's property, but get Mom out of her hair? And she doesn't want to hand Mom over to anyone else in the family, because everyone's going to make Sister move out of Mom's house or hand over Mom's money or belongings?

Get a lawyer. And go see Mom.

[Anonymous]

It is your responsibility to go see your mother. There are no other options.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just go out there and see for yourself. Surprise visit. Don't let sis know you're coming. That is what you have to do.

+1000 You can not negotiate this urgent situation from your home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op again. Sister won't allow mother to see anyone.

Man up, fly there, get the police involved in a welfare check. Adult protective services too

[Anonymous]

Just go and get your mum already!! How is wasting precious time here helping you mum? Get on the next plane/train/automobile ang go to her. Bring her back with you if necessary,

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Won't only= wontonly

I and relatives heard mother on phone. Sister has history of drunken tirades.

None of this matters. You have to go out to your mom and find out what's going on. What are the meds? Talk with her doctor. You can't handle this from afar.

I need only respondents who are unbiased and familiar with both sides. Those who have been through it are familiar with certain ramifications I am not at liberty to spell out. Thank you for your anticipated understanding (unless you are the sister, of course!!!) I have no problem getting a lawyer if no other respondent chimes in.

Are you sure your sister is the one with the issues?

[Anonymous]

What do you mean by "committed to a hospital?" If she does end up at a hospital, you would simply call the social services at the hospital (or similar service) and explain the situation.

They would be able to tell by blood panels and other indicators what is going on, ie, if your mother was taking medications not prescribed for her or in excess of the prescription.

I assume you know the general location, you would call the hospitals and find out which one she is at.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op again. Sister won't allow mother to see anyone.

You are making excuses.
If this situation is real, and you truly feel as if your mother is in danger, you need to get to her ASAP.
Make an unannounced visit, and be prepared to take law enforcement if necessary.
Posting here will do nothing to help your mother.
I am really hoping that this is not a real situation.

[Anonymous]

Also, you can't be "committed" to a hospital unless you are under a "hold", think dangerous psychiatric patient, and only until they are finding you a bed in a psychiatric hospital where there are professionals who will immediately know if someone is drugged and help them detox.

An elderly woman who is demented will be seen by social services for placement in an appropriate facility, such as a nursing home.

[Anonymous]

If my sister was doing this, there is no way I would be sitting at home asking strangers on the internet what to do. Go over there and deal with it. If your sister wants her out of the house, she should be happy for someone to take your mom. A plane ticket is also cheaper than lawyers.