Any women here marry younger men?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm married to a guy 1 year and a half younger. He's a dream boat and takes really good care of me. The age difference isn't an issue except for the fact that we're both in the same place career wise so he's not my sugar daddy.

Is he a provider?

He's motivated and earns quite well for his age.65k at 25. Not at all a "provider" yet but he is motivated and works really hard.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Yeah I love my dh but the girls who married older guys "started" their lives earlier. Had more financial stability, had babies , bought a house etc.

BUT BUT BUT why would a woman want to deal with an older man's "saggy balls?" It's pathetic when these older men hit on younger women!

Sincerely,

All the DCUM harpies in the "Why do men remarry younger women?" thread

[Anonymous]

My friends who married older guys are now dealing with OLD MEN and their health issues. I'll take a same-age or few years younger guy any day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Yeah I love my dh but the girls who married older guys "started" their lives earlier. Had more financial stability, had babies , bought a house etc.

BUT BUT BUT why would a woman want to deal with an older man's "saggy balls?" It's pathetic when these older men hit on younger women!

Sincerely,

All the DCUM harpies in the "Why do men remarry younger women?" thread

Well a 25 year old girl doesn't have to marry a 40 year old to land financial stability. Even if she marries a 32 year old, he's more likely to earn more money than a 25 year old guy.

[Anonymous]

I am two years older. I was ready for house/kids before he was. Money was not an issue though because he went to law school straight from undergrad so he was making $160k at 25. We had our first DD the next year.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am two years older. I was ready for house/kids before he was. Money was not an issue though because he went to law school straight from undergrad so he was making $160k at 25. We had our first DD the next year.

Wow you got super lucky! A hot young man AND he's a sugar daddy!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am two years older. I was ready for house/kids before he was. Money was not an issue though because he went to law school straight from undergrad so he was making $160k at 25. We had our first DD the next year.

Wow you got super lucky! A hot young man AND he's a sugar daddy!!

I can't tell if this is sarcasm but I actually do think I got super lucky! Celebrating 11 years of marriage next month.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:17 years younger only 2 years younger than his mom.

[Anonymous]

My H is 2 years younger. It hasn't made any difference since he turned 21 and could have a drink at dinner when we went out and I didn't have to supply our wine. Except perhaps when we thought about when to have kids, I did have to keep in mind my age then for the when to start type conversations.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am two years older. I was ready for house/kids before he was. Money was not an issue though because he went to law school straight from undergrad so he was making $160k at 25. We had our first DD the next year.

Wow you got super lucky! A hot young man AND he's a sugar daddy!!

I can't tell if this is sarcasm but I actually do think I got super lucky! Celebrating 11 years of marriage next month.

Just curious about his current level of sugardaddiness. How much does he make now?

[Anonymous]

I was married to a 5 years older man. He's oldest among his siblings, I'm youngest of many. He acted older and it didn't work out, he treated me like a child. Divorced after decades.

[Anonymous]

My DH is 2.5 years younger but very mature for his age. A friend of mine is 5 years older than her DH - they met stocking shelves at a store when he was 18 and she was 23. He's a doctor now and they just had their first DC at 27/32.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My friends who married older guys are now dealing with OLD MEN and their health issues. I'll take a same-age or few years younger guy any day.

So will men.

[Anonymous]

Serious question - why would ANY remotely desirable man marry a woman 5+ years older? Screw, sure. But marry? A 30 year old man with a 35 year old woman has to rush to have kids and missed all her hot years. Any man with options would prefer a 25 year old.

[Anonymous]

My (male) response would be that a lot depends on whether the man has, or wants children. A man who wants children can't really date women much past their mid-30s. A woman can date an older man and still have kids.

On the other hand, if he already had children, or doesn't want them, then all that really matters is looks and personality. There are plenty of highly attractive 35+ women, and plenty of not-so-attractive younger women.