Coping/Moving on after separation/divorce

[Anonymous]

Op here...thank you for all your recommendations. Change is hard, but I'm really trying to see this as an opportunity for good things to happen. Even if it doesn't always feel that way right now.

[Anonymous]

If it helps, everyone I know has said that going through the divorce was hard. But once they slogged through it, life was so much better on the other side. Many have even said they wish they did it sooner. They were so afraid of being alone or being a single parent they held on to something that wasn't working. And they had gotten used to the unhappiness (and/or fighting).

Once the divorce cloud lifted, they were finally able to be in charge of their own happiness. It was such a relief not to be dragged down by a bad person and/or relationship.

Just have faith that you will get to the other side and it will be better!