He left me standed in any unkown city.

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[Post New]03/15/2015 18:58
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Anonymous
Wow. That was enough of a dick move when it read like yall were in the same hometown. You really dodged a bullet OP.
[Post New]03/15/2015 19:28
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Anonymous
Your description of what he did to you sounded like something out of 20/20.
[Post New]03/15/2015 19:52
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Anonymous
He sounds like he has some pathological personality issues. You really did dodge a bullet here. Sorry about your wrecked weekend. Block his number and move on.
[Post New]03/15/2015 19:59
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:What an immature vindictive loser. Just be glad you learned before anything happened.


+1. He sounds like he has a personality disorder and you are much, much, much better off finding out now. Delete his # and texts and ignore him if you ever hear back. Total loser and what a psycho thing to do. (NOW WE ARE EVEN! Is he 12?)
[Post New]03/15/2015 20:11
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Anonymous wrote:Op please read and listen. I know what you are going through. I dated a man who changed overnight. It was a light switch from caring, considerate, loving to master manipulator, verbally abusive, etc. I racked my brain for months how and why this man who had never shown a glimpse of that side, so easily and without remorse act like that towards me and others. I cut off contact and stopped analyzing the situation. I am now newly married to a man who is great.

It may not seem like it now but he gave you the best gift. No rational person would pull a stunt like that. He was masking his true colors and with it being long-distance, he had a greater chance at doing that. I guarantee you would be so unhappy if you were to have dated this man. He is clearly vindictive and selfish. Please go home, delete his info, and never look back.


+1 to all of this. And good for you PP for moving on instead of trying to solve the mystery.
[Post New]03/15/2015 20:21
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Anonymous

Thank goodness you didn't sleep with that lunatic!
[Post New]03/15/2015 20:24
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Anonymous
You should give him another chance. It sound exciting!
[Post New]03/15/2015 21:06
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Anonymous
Sorry op, I guess I'm not like most. No unresolved relationships back home. Is this a normal thing? To just have unresolved relationships.
[Post New]03/15/2015 21:16
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Anonymous

I understand that you're resentful, but you do realize you have avoided a traumatizing relationship with a truly disturbed person?

Cut him off entirely. Do not initiate any communication and do not respond to any of his, however much you are curious about the whys and wherefores. He probably would derive great pleasure from having you hang on, so don't.



[Post New]03/15/2015 21:50
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Anonymous
OP, maybe you need to slow down before getting seriously involved with someone. You liked the one person before grad school, he's gone, and now this guy came along. Take your time, get to know someone before feelings develop. Understand who they are as a person before deciding if they are worth the investment.
[Post New]03/15/2015 21:58
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Anonymous
You flaked on him, then he flaked on you. Move on.
[Post New]03/15/2015 22:37
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Anonymous
He is SUCH an immature asshole. IGNORE him. live well..date well. best revenge
[Post New]03/15/2015 22:42
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP, maybe you need to slow down before getting seriously involved with someone. You liked the one person before grad school, he's gone, and now this guy came along. Take your time, get to know someone before feelings develop. Understand who they are as a person before deciding if they are worth the investment.


Good advice
[Post New]03/15/2015 23:14
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Anonymous wrote:OP, maybe you need to slow down before getting seriously involved with someone. You liked the one person before grad school, he's gone, and now this guy came along. Take your time, get to know someone before feelings develop. Understand who they are as a person before deciding if they are worth the investment.


I'm OP. You must be confused or misread. He is the guy before grad school. I dated one guy for 2.5 months but I couldn't get over this guy. I actually don't move quickly. This was the only case in which everything just happened quickiy.
[Post New]03/15/2015 23:17
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OP here. Thank you for the responses. I want to clarify to whomever needs it that this is the man I was with before grad, not a new guy. I feel so foolish. It takes forever for me to open and trust but it came easy with him.

He has called and texted asking if I was still in NY and wanted to meet. I can't believe he's seriously asking that. I will not reply. Thanks again!
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