Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It seems funny to me that the OP is catching so much shit for sharing a story about a local MARRIED man on a non-discrete hook-up site. I think a lot of you missed the point here.
These threads on DCUM attract the creepiest low-lifes, serial cheaters, women-haters, and the so-called open marriage proponents. None of whom can stay on topic because they all have an agenda and they're all a little mentally ill.
I don't know if OP is real or not, but I bet she is. Tinder is safer than doing what my ex-husband did during our early separation: put up an ad on match.com with his photo and saying he was divorced.
I should stay away from threads like this. They are really sort of gross.
Ah, Yes, I'm the OP and as real as they come.
And as for Tinder, I really haven't met anyone because the idea that Tinder sells is a woman ready to just show up at a hotel room and get busy. No joke. I have stories of CRAZY expectations from idiot dudes, one in which was married. Oooops - suddenly all his pics changed to pics of him, his wife and 2 kids. Yep, he was in town for business and ask me "If we meet for a drink and there is a spark, what is the likihood that you will get naked, cuz I really don't have that much time". I told him I never promise sex to a stranger. A few weeks later I saw him again on Tinder and asked if he got his fantasy lay. He said "Nope, but I did get a blowjob". Can't make it up.

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