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Anonymous
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Ack! I saw a married dude I know on Tinder! And I know for sure him and the wife are not talking divorce.
Felt odd to see. I mean I'm single so no biggie for me and I know lots if dudes use when out of town for work. But just weird to see that.... I'm not great friends with then so don't plan in saying anything but last I heard the wife was putting out 3 times a week. Maybe that's changed. Who knows. I always thought if the dude as completely whipped over his wife. So seeing this was quite a shock. Anyway, thought I'd share a bit of drama from a single divorcee. Can't make this stuff up |
Anonymous
Interesting...glad no married women are on tinder right! |
Anonymous
| Who knows actually. I don't see the other side but I'm sure it happens. I just found it interesting to see a dude I knew. |
Anonymous
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I'm not on tinder, but divorced friends see married men all the time. I'm talking family men in NW DC, Bethesda, CC. I can hardly believe it.
Apparently their wives have no idea. Haven't heard of any married women on there though. |
Anonymous
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Anonymous
| It seems very careless, unless they have an understanding with their spouse. |
Anonymous
This understanding with spouse thing is unique to DCUM. The men who my friends saw there have no "understanding with their spouse." They're just cheating. |
Anonymous
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My husband understands if I see him on a dating site I get a divorce and half his shit. That alone keeps him honest.
I don't get cheating. Why marry if you're going to cheat ? Why stay married if you're going to cheat ? If 4 women are sitting down for lunch, one has genital herpes and so does her husband. NO THANKS. |
Anonymous
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For someone who isn't such great friends with this couple, it sure is strange that you are so privy to the most intimate details of their lives.
This story must be fake or it must be about YOU. So...Fess up. |
Anonymous
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No, its all true. I saw the dude 2 times and last night before my post, I texted my ex husband to ask if they were getting divorced. He said No. I told him I saw him on Tinder 2 times and he said that he hadn't hung out with the couple in a few months but knew their marriage wasn't that good. Then he said that maybe they are in an open relationship now.
Who knows. I haven't talked to the couple in 3 years since moving out, but I was just shocked to see the dude. That's all. For local married men, I think Tinder is just too careless personally. |
Anonymous
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but you want to fuck him, right?
so go ahead since that's what you're really asking here. |
Anonymous
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NO! I don't. I simply was shocked to see a married dude I knew on Tinder. Again, I know married dudes are on there all the time, particularly when in DC on business. It was just the first time I saw a person I knew. If he was single, no biggie. But married and local? Kind of crazy if you ask me. I was just really surprised.
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Anonymous
If you read my original post, there was no question posed. Just simply an observation. Pay attention next time before responding. Thanks. |
Anonymous
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You haven't talked to them in three years but heard last the wife was "putting out" 3x/week?
Obvs married dudes on tinder is gross. But you seem pretty focused on other folks' relationships. Maybe just worry about yourself? |
Anonymous
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Ok yes the last time I hung out with the woman 3 years ago that's what she told me. I generally just worry about myself until something like this comes along. And I dint worry, I simply make an observation and share what I see.
Believe me, I have so many stories post divorce that are truly observations that happen to happen to me. Having my freedom has let me experience dating again and my oh my has it changed. When I tell my friends my stories their jaws drop and I just say - yep, can't make it up. All true stories lol! |