My Ex-H Cheated, but He won't Admit it...

[Anonymous]

Ex is garbage. To be thrown away the way he threw you away. Don't ever pine over a piece of shit. You go out with your head up and live. Get off Facebook and enjoy life.

[Anonymous]

Okay, here's my armchair psych evaluation of you. You are still upset because you have a desire for everyone to know that you are a martyr and deserved better. It makes you insane that he won't admit the affair, but you know that he never will. You absolutely know he won't ever admit it.

He has convinced himself that it wasn't an affair while you were married. In his mind, his actions were justifiable and he treated you honorably by divorcing you instead of cheating. You know he's wrong, but you can't let it go.

Tell yourself that your ex is mentally ill. Tell yourself his brain has cancer and he can't help himself.

Move on. For the love of pete -- move on.