MIL zips husbands zipper right in front of me

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's his mother, right? She swooped in as she would have done when he was a kid, that's all.

Weird and creepy!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's his mother, right? She swooped in as she would have done when he was a kid, that's all.

Weird and creepy!

No this really happened--she is a control freak which is why I took issue with her doing it right in front of me. She is very territorial of her son so I guess I felt like she was doing it to sow me she is still the boss and in control. When I asked my husband about it he said he didn't even think of reacting but yes he thought it was weird. She is an attractive women who dresses at times too young for her age and who is having a very hard time with aging. Glad to know that I wasn't just being hard on her. My husband tends to be defensive and deflect blame or weirdness on to me. Guess you all can gather that I don't like mu mother in law very much! We have three children and she refuses to call me to see how they are just calls DH. She so passive aggressive. It's strange because when we are together we actually have a pretty pleasant time--not with standing the investable underhanded compliment or the slight that I only realize after the fact.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's his mother, right? She swooped in as she would have done when he was a kid, that's all.

Weird and creepy!

No this really happened--she is a control freak which is why I took issue with her doing it right in front of me. She is very territorial of her son so I guess I felt like she was doing it to sow me she is still the boss and in control. When I asked my husband about it he said he didn't even think of reacting but yes he thought it was weird. She is an attractive women who dresses at times too young for her age and who is having a very hard time with aging. Glad to know that I wasn't just being hard on her. My husband tends to be defensive and deflect blame or weirdness on to me. Guess you all can gather that I don't like mu mother in law very much! We have three children and she refuses to call me to see how they are just calls DH. She so passive aggressive. It's strange because when we are together we actually have a pretty pleasant time--not with standing the investable underhanded compliment or the slight that I only realize after the fact.

PS sorry for the typos!!!

[Anonymous]

After she zipped him you should've 'arranged' him. That would've shown her who's really boss

[Anonymous]

Your DH needs to step up here. You are right that this is totally boundary-less and gross. But it's his crotch. Don't add to the boundary violation by fighting the battle for him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:After she zipped him you should've 'arranged' him. That would've shown her who's really boss

NP here. I just spat out my coffee. Thanks for the laugh!!

[Anonymous]

It's ok , she is his mother,what the problem'people in here like to see monsters in everything,CARAMBA!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's ok , she is his mother,what the problem'people in here like to see monsters in everything,CARAMBA!!!

+1

The only thing more weird than his mother doing this is the reaction of people on this forum.

OP, don't you have more important things to worry about?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's ok , she is his mother,what the problem'people in here like to see monsters in everything,CARAMBA!!!

So in that vein, should it be ok for my dad to readjust my breasts in my bra? I think not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's ok , she is his mother,what the problem'people in here like to see monsters in everything,CARAMBA!!!

So in that vein, should it be ok for my dad to readjust my breasts in my bra? I think not.

No, but what if he tucked in the tag at the back of your shirt? More intimate than you'd want a stranger doing, but not creepy in itself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's ok , she is his mother,what the problem'people in here like to see monsters in everything,CARAMBA!!!

So in that vein, should it be ok for my dad to readjust my breasts in my bra? I think not.

No, but what if he tucked in the tag at the back of your shirt? More intimate than you'd want a stranger doing, but not creepy in itself.

I think a parent tucking in a tag is fundamentally different than zipping a fly. I wouldn't bat an eye if DH's mom tucked in his tag.

[Anonymous]

This is the most extreme form of helicopter parenting I've ever heard of in my life!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's ok , she is his mother,what the problem'people in here like to see monsters in everything,CARAMBA!!!

So in that vein, should it be ok for my dad to readjust my breasts in my bra? I think not.

No, but what if he tucked in the tag at the back of your shirt? More intimate than you'd want a stranger doing, but not creepy in itself.

I think a parent tucking in a tag is fundamentally different than zipping a fly. I wouldn't bat an eye if DH's mom tucked in his tag.

Actually, let me amend that. DH's mom has been dead since 2005 so I'd freak if she tucked in his tag.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't even zip up my DH's zipper!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's ok , she is his mother,what the problem'people in here like to see monsters in everything,CARAMBA!!!

So in that vein, should it be ok for my dad to readjust my breasts in my bra? I think not.

No, but what if he tucked in the tag at the back of your shirt? More intimate than you'd want a stranger doing, but not creepy in itself.

I think a parent tucking in a tag is fundamentally different than zipping a fly. I wouldn't bat an eye if DH's mom tucked in his tag.

Yes. PENIS