Mudderella?

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure why size is relevant here. I'm 5'0" and seem to be okay in a world of larger bullies.

Seems like the group was already starting to divide and this woman was a catalyst. I don't think she's being mean to you; probably just trying to understand why you are putting down something she loves.

She loves mud races. You sound like you have contempt for them and the people who run them. She and your other friends are probably wondering what your problem is.

People are allowed to like other things. You can sneer at it, or you can cheer for them on the sidelines.

She's just trying to share an activity she loves. It's pretty normal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm not sure why size is relevant here. I'm 5'0" and seem to be okay in a world of larger bullies.

Seems like the group was already starting to divide and this woman was a catalyst. I don't think she's being mean to you; probably just trying to understand why you are putting down something she loves.

She loves mud races. You sound like you have contempt for them and the people who run them. She and your other friends are probably wondering what your problem is.

People are allowed to like other things. You can sneer at it, or you can cheer for them on the sidelines.

She's just trying to share an activity she loves. It's pretty normal.

OP here. I am 45 years old. I don't want to injure myself by training and running and obstacle course. ?

I have never shown contempt for my friends. Not everyone is physically able to compete in a muddy obstacle course and not every one wants to.

[Anonymous]

Just curious op, do you get what some posters are saying about how you come across?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm not sure why size is relevant here. I'm 5'0" and seem to be okay in a world of larger bullies.

Seems like the group was already starting to divide and this woman was a catalyst. I don't think she's being mean to you; probably just trying to understand why you are putting down something she loves.

She loves mud races. You sound like you have contempt for them and the people who run them. She and your other friends are probably wondering what your problem is.

People are allowed to like other things. You can sneer at it, or you can cheer for them on the sidelines.

She's just trying to share an activity she loves. It's pretty normal.

OP here. I am 45 years old. I don't want to injure myself by training and running and obstacle course. ?

I have never shown contempt for my friends. Not everyone is physically able to compete in a muddy obstacle course and not every one wants to.

NP here, OP you aren't picking up what we're putting down. If you want to keep on thinking muddy obstacle courses are the devil and your mortal enemy all rolled into one, godspeed.

[Anonymous]

Op, I can't do these types of events due to knee issues, but several of my friends love them. I may roll my eyes at some of the themes, but if I'm able to, I along with other non participating friends go to cheer them on and then go out for drinks after. We've even gone on a weekend long trip where they've been competing and we've had a blast. They also are supporters for activities we do.

I thinK your disdain for these events and thus woman are showing much more than you realize, and that's what's creating the issue.

[Anonymous]

OP, are you normally this worried about mud and getting dirty, or is it only when large women are involved?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The muddy obstacle courses are all they talk about. I have never heard of them.

Have you tried one? If all your friends are suddenly so into them maybe you will like them too.

But Op is too petite. Not like an ogre like the other person.

Good for a true LOL. Thank you!

[Anonymous]

I really thought you were 22 based on the post. Grow up.

[Anonymous]

OP I have a friend whose DH is obsessed with the Tough Mudder races....I do not get them at all and even at the height of my physical fitness would not have wanted to do these and I am 15 years younger than you.

I do not know why the pps are being assholes but I understand why you are annoyed.

She does sound like an annoying woman so I guess I would try to avoid activities with her and plan some things with your friends without including her and break up the group a bit?

And for all you saying this sounds like HS....are you not familiar with WOMEN? This happens at every age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP I have a friend whose DH is obsessed with the Tough Mudder races....I do not get them at all and even at the height of my physical fitness would not have wanted to do these and I am 15 years younger than you.

I do not know why the pps are being assholes but I understand why you are annoyed.

She does sound like an annoying woman so I guess I would try to avoid activities with her and plan some things with your friends without including her and break up the group a bit?

And for all you saying this sounds like HS....are you not familiar with WOMEN? This happens at every age.

We are being assholes because the OP is clearly judging the woman for being divorced, childless, and omg LARGE. None of this is relevant to the fact that the woman is causing a rift in the friend circle, yet OP feels it necessary to point out these horrific traits because how dare a DIVORCED FAT woman act like this.

OP - the woman probably picks up on your judgment of her and is acting rationally in trying to keep the good people in your circle and get the petite, judgey, bitchy, sticks in the mud out

[Anonymous]

For the record a 5'4 woman weighing 125 who doesn't have muscle (as you repeatedly say you don't) is kinda pudgy. Not dainty and petite. Just FYI.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP I have a friend whose DH is obsessed with the Tough Mudder races....I do not get them at all and even at the height of my physical fitness would not have wanted to do these and I am 15 years younger than you.

I do not know why the pps are being assholes but I understand why you are annoyed.

She does sound like an annoying woman so I guess I would try to avoid activities with her and plan some things with your friends without including her and break up the group a bit?

And for all you saying this sounds like HS....are you not familiar with WOMEN? This happens at every age.

We are being assholes because the OP is clearly judging the woman for being divorced, childless, and omg LARGE. None of this is relevant to the fact that the woman is causing a rift in the friend circle, yet OP feels it necessary to point out these horrific traits because how dare a DIVORCED FAT woman act like this.

OP - the woman probably picks up on your judgment of her and is acting rationally in trying to keep the good people in your circle and get the petite, judgey, bitchy, sticks in the mud out

PP here and you sound really angry and have placed your anger on the OP. I do not see how the details she provided would have you assume you know anything about her, especially on an anonymous forum where tone cannot be interpreted by words typed most of the time, but you do not sound like the nicest person either... Food for thought.

[Anonymous]

She sounds kind of pushy.

I've never seen the appeal of the mud runs. I also don't see the appeal of all these random 5K color runs, etc. (though the zombie run sounds hilarious.) I am a very active person and an avid runner, so people often ask me to do these types of things with them. Some of them are newer runners and they are REALLY zealous about running in they way that the newly converted often seem to be. I just say, "i'm not really into that, but I look forward to seeing the pics and hearing all about your race!" and then I ask them about it afterward. Nobody has shunned me yet.

You may be coming off as overly harsh or judgmental in your condemnation of these races and the people doing them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP I have a friend whose DH is obsessed with the Tough Mudder races....I do not get them at all and even at the height of my physical fitness would not have wanted to do these and I am 15 years younger than you.

I do not know why the pps are being assholes but I understand why you are annoyed.

She does sound like an annoying woman so I guess I would try to avoid activities with her and plan some things with your friends without including her and break up the group a bit?

And for all you saying this sounds like HS....are you not familiar with WOMEN? This happens at every age.

We are being assholes because the OP is clearly judging the woman for being divorced, childless, and omg LARGE. None of this is relevant to the fact that the woman is causing a rift in the friend circle, yet OP feels it necessary to point out these horrific traits because how dare a DIVORCED FAT woman act like this.

OP - the woman probably picks up on your judgment of her and is acting rationally in trying to keep the good people in your circle and get the petite, judgey, bitchy, sticks in the mud out

PP here and you sound really angry and have placed your anger on the OP. I do not see how the details she provided would have you assume you know anything about her, especially on an anonymous forum where tone cannot be interpreted by words typed most of the time, but you do not sound like the nicest person either... Food for thought.

Everyone but you pretty much came to the conclusion OP is being a snot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP I have a friend whose DH is obsessed with the Tough Mudder races....I do not get them at all and even at the height of my physical fitness would not have wanted to do these and I am 15 years younger than you.

I do not know why the pps are being assholes but I understand why you are annoyed.

She does sound like an annoying woman so I guess I would try to avoid activities with her and plan some things with your friends without including her and break up the group a bit?

And for all you saying this sounds like HS....are you not familiar with WOMEN? This happens at every age.

I'd wager a guess that most of the people posting in this thread are women so we are indeed familiar. And if this behavior seems like HS (or less) to us then what does that tell you about yourself and the women you hang around? Life doesn't have to be full of drama over an obstacle course race.