How did you hide money from your spouse pre-separation/divorce

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What do you anticipate for your children?

They'll be taken care of.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Everytime I went to the grocery store I did 10 or 20 bucks over the amount on my debt. I did this for 4.5 years.

You hung around in a bad marriage for 4+ years squirreling away "extra" grocery money? That sucks!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What do you anticipate for your children?

They'll be taken care of.

Sure. They'll be scared for life. You know that, don't you?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What do you anticipate for your children?

They'll be taken care of.

Sure. They'll be scared for life. You know that, don't you?

Scared of what?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Everytime I went to the grocery store I did 10 or 20 bucks over the amount on my debt. I did this for 4.5 years.

If I had 4-5 years to do this, I would for sure. Seems pretty foolproof

It does seem foolproof. After all, if you went to the store 104 times a year (twice a week) for 5 years and took out an extra $20 every time, you'd end up with the huge sum of...$10,400.

Sure seems like sticking around in your shitty marriage for 5 years. You can buy half a car to drive away in.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Everytime I went to the grocery store I did 10 or 20 bucks over the amount on my debt. I did this for 4.5 years.

You hung around in a bad marriage for 4+ years squirreling away "extra" grocery money? That sucks!

Common for spouses in abusive/sexless marriages to do this.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What do you anticipate for your children?

They'll be taken care of.

Sure. They'll be scared for life. You know that, don't you?

Scared of what?

Trauma. Resiliency is a grand myth.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What do you anticipate for your children?

They'll be taken care of.

Sure. They'll be scared for life. You know that, don't you?

Scared of what?

Trauma. Resiliency is a grand myth.

Oh this person again.

Not sure how I survived all the 'trauma' from my parents divorcing 30 years ago.

I must have been lucky.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What do you anticipate for your children?

They'll be taken care of.

Sure. They'll be scared for life. You know that, don't you?

Scared of what?

Trauma. Resiliency is a grand myth.

Oh this person again.

Not sure how I survived all the 'trauma' from my parents divorcing 30 years ago.

I must have been lucky.

Nope. I didn't start the myth of resiliency thread. Sorry.
Just as you, your children shall be predisposed to divorce. Do you really want that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All accounts can be traced since you have to supply your scoial to open any account.

You are an idiot.

I'm not sure if there's a central repository for tracking bank accounts that lawyers have access to. The usual trick is to send out subpoenas to the largest banks (WF, BofA, etc.) and then to local banks in the area. If you picked a smaller bank with branches elsewhere you could probably get away with it.

Of course, it would eventually come out on the financial disclosure forms.

[Anonymous]

I thought the usual methods were (1) all transactions in cash, (2) get a friend/family member you trust WITH YOUR LIFE and that also hates your STBX to store $$$

But somehow, I really doubt you're going to provide shit for your kids, at least after your new wife starts bitching about the money she sees as being thrown away.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What do you anticipate for your children?

They'll be taken care of.

Sure. They'll be scared for life. You know that, don't you?

Scared of what?

Trauma. Resiliency is a grand myth.

Oh this person again.

Not sure how I survived all the 'trauma' from my parents divorcing 30 years ago.

I must have been lucky.

Nope. I didn't start the myth of resiliency thread. Sorry.
Just as you, your children shall be predisposed to divorce. Do you really want that?

Do I really want to divorce? No. But it is beyond saving and my mind is made up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I thought the usual methods were (1) all transactions in cash, (2) get a friend/family member you trust WITH YOUR LIFE and that also hates your STBX to store $$$

But somehow, I really doubt you're going to provide shit for your kids, at least after your new wife starts bitching about the money she sees as being thrown away.

I love my kids.

I hate my wife.

I'd rather just give the kids all of my money.

They'll be taken care of for sure.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:All accounts can be traced since you have to supply your scoial to open any account.

You are an idiot.

I'm not sure if there's a central repository for tracking bank accounts that lawyers have access to. The usual trick is to send out subpoenas to the largest banks (WF, BofA, etc.) and then to local banks in the area. If you picked a smaller bank with branches elsewhere you could probably get away with it.

Of course, it would eventually come out on the financial disclosure forms.

States are required to keep this information. Also, they can ask for tax forms (anything earning interest would be reportable).

If it is discovered that you are hiding assets to a judge.... Well, it would not be pretty.

You could buy assets with a trusted friend (you could not be on the title or account). But then they could steal it or take it from you and they would be taxed on it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What do you anticipate for your children?

They'll be taken care of.

Sure. They'll be scared for life. You know that, don't you?

Scared of what?

Trauma. Resiliency is a grand myth.

**facepalm** the PP was making fun of the misspelled word. SCARRED, not scared.