Sudden Onset of erectile dysfunction

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Having "ED" one night means nothing and can happen anyway. The problems from there are:
• Is it medical? Anxiety begins.
• Why did it happen? Anxiety begins or continues.
• Will it happen again? Anxiety continues and causes it to happen again. Purely psychological.
• STUPID WOMAN: "It's me, isn't it?" – Causes insane amount of stress. The fear of it happening again, causing you to think it's because of you, will make it happen again tenfold.

Want to bring him back? Play with his cock. Play with it soft. Suck it. Massage his balls. LOVE his small cock. Once he realizes you love his cock and are willing to suck it and lick it, even while flaccid, the problem will resolve itself.

Again, a doctor running a heart stress test still isn't a bad idea, but try the playing.

Older male here with sudden onset of ED in early 50s. I knew the reason though, didn't have anything to do with the wife. The first part of this pp response regards the anxiety issue hits the nail on the head. The more my wife kept making it about her, the more it stressed me and just became impossible for me to get an erection.

Mine was caused by a HS GF that started flirting with me heavily via email and sexting. All of a sudden within a 24 hr period, all my sexual focus was on her. I'm not able to focus sexually on more than one woman at a time.

Second part of pp was all wrong in my case. Wife became very concerned, played with my cock and sucked for a long time. Nothing at all would get me hard. She insisted on taking me to the Dr. She told the Dr point blank that she wanted me hard. He prescribed Testosterone shots. Still didn't help. I couldn't get an erection until I broke off all the flirting with prior GF a few wks later. Next day, hard as concrete. It was all in my head.

Yes. The second part fails if the ED is caused by wanting another woman. Otherwise, part two will work.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband was totally reliable in the erection department for almost two decades. One day BAM he started having problems.

I tried so many things. He acted sooo clueless.

It turned out it started right at the time he got interested in another woman. Guilt.

This could certainly be the issue and it may be caused by guilt or lessened desire when it comes to having sex with the wife. It may not even entail an affair with the OW .... even an emotional affair could trigger it.

[Anonymous]

I just stumbled on this but am having the same issues with my husband.. it was sudden but now has been a 2 year battle that has freaked havoc on our marriage.. he did blame me at first.. all sorts of reasons and while he now says its him I can't get the stuff he said about me out of my head..i also can't justify the cost of the Viagra because given what's been said to me by him the use of Viagra just seems to be making it work when there are reasons it's not

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:ED can be the sign of a serious medical problem, such as a heart issue or diabetes. A visit to the doctor is in order.

Agreed.

OP, you are a wee bit dramatic...

[Anonymous]

This is an almost four-year-old thread.

I wonder if it turned out OP's husband had been cheating. I'd bet money on it.

There's a special place in hell for men who cheat, then suffer from ED, and make their wives feel it's their fault.

[Anonymous]

Through the roof high-drive man with sudden ED?

He cheated on you, with almost 100% certainty.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Through the roof high-drive man with sudden ED?

He cheated on you, with almost 100% certainty.

Can you explain the connection between cheating and ED? Just curious...

[Anonymous]

18:26....Besides medical or an affair; it could be a porn addiction. Secretly check your DH's browser history.. All those late nights on the computer can do a number on his libido. Speaking from experience and almost on the other side.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is an almost four-year-old thread.

I wonder if it turned out OP's husband had been cheating. I'd bet money on it.

There's a special place in hell for men who cheat, then suffer from ED, and make their wives feel it's their fault.

There is a special place in hell for most of us. If you believe in hell.

[Anonymous]

He must be in advanced stages of an STD contracted from his extramarital sex. You should get checked real quick then consult with a lawyer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I just stumbled on this but am having the same issues with my husband.. it was sudden but now has been a 2 year battle that has freaked havoc on our marriage.. he did blame me at first.. all sorts of reasons and while he now says its him I can't get the stuff he said about me out of my head..i also can't justify the cost of the Viagra because given what's been said to me by him the use of Viagra just seems to be making it work when there are reasons it's not

You can request the dic prescribe generic sildenifil and its like $5 a month with insurance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I just stumbled on this but am having the same issues with my husband.. it was sudden but now has been a 2 year battle that has freaked havoc on our marriage.. he did blame me at first.. all sorts of reasons and while he now says its him I can't get the stuff he said about me out of my head..i also can't justify the cost of the Viagra because given what's been said to me by him the use of Viagra just seems to be making it work when there are reasons it's not

You can request the dic prescribe generic sildenifil and its like $5 a month with insurance.

Lol. I meant “doc”.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I just stumbled on this but am having the same issues with my husband.. it was sudden but now has been a 2 year battle that has freaked havoc on our marriage.. he did blame me at first.. all sorts of reasons and while he now says its him I can't get the stuff he said about me out of my head..i also can't justify the cost of the Viagra because given what's been said to me by him the use of Viagra just seems to be making it work when there are reasons it's not

You can request the dic prescribe generic sildenifil and its like $5 a month with insurance.

Lol. I meant “doc”.

Best typo today.

[Anonymous]

It has happened to my husband a few times. In every situation it was related to stress at work. Every time, he was really shattered and thought the world had ended. I wasn't worried at all, but I did try to coax him back to emotional health, by not making a big deal of it, showing some empathy, and gently trying to get him to see what was going on and that it wasn't related to his sexual appetite.