Two Kids, Angry Husband, Lots of Stress

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Dump him. This is toxic

Oh for Pete Freakin sakes. I'm sorry you're alone now, but don't take it out on OP.

This is common, OP, I hate to say it. You are in THE WORST YEARS. Newborn + Toddler = new levels of stress. Throw in your DH's job situation and you have a formula for problems.

How about a little patience and compassion?

I agree he cannot continue to act this way, but please try to see where it's coming from. I promise it will get better, but unfortunately, most likely not until your baby is 4. Hang in there. Work with him. Try to have some laughs. Or, just write the next couple of years off as Really Stressful and look forward to the next stage.

No. This is how people waste their lives, staying and showing patience and compassion for a person who can't be bothered to do the same for them.
Get through the next couple of years OP, and then decide if life is better without him (spoiler alert: it probably will be).