She cheated caught and still lying

[Anonymous]

OP, she's trying the Shaggy "It Wasn't Me" defense on you.

Don't be the first person in history to fall for it.

[Anonymous]

I have a sibling in college and he says girls in hs and undergrad are nastier and hornier than the guys.

[Anonymous]

Can you give us more details about how she glorified his performance?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dude, get out. It is way different when a woman cheats. Kids?

Can you elaborate on this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Can you give us more details about how she glorified his performance?

Why does that even matter?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man up and file for divorce.

It might not be that easy for some men to just end it. Like myself at one point, the OP is in the denial stage and really wants to give her the benefit of the doubt.

Question for the OP is, are you comfortable living with someone who brags/fantacizes to her girlfriend about another man's sexual performance and not yours? It is demoralizing, emasculating and embarrassing, but certainly you deserve better!

A question for you (I'm not the OP). When you were in the denial phase, could anyone have said anything to help you see your DW for what she was? I'm so tired of seeing a loved one hurt by the liar he's married to, while others get blamed.

No, because denial means your brain and emotions still want to believe something which does not exist as the reality. So even though my ex-DW (now referred to as b!tch), was betraying me, because of my feelings for her, my brain and emotions denied the reality of the situation. It was not until I sat with a trained professional/specialist that my emotions eventually came around, and I had clarity of mind for what I needed to do.

Divorce is a wonderful thing. We should embrace and celebrate it. Can be more liberating than sex... win-win if you divorce and have sex freely

[Anonymous]

She cheated! Best indicator is the response when caught. It seems like the only possibility of rebuilding is when the cheating spouse tells everything and then pleads for forgiveness and acknowledges the mistake.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She cheated! Best indicator is the response when caught. It seems like the only possibility of rebuilding is when the cheating spouse tells everything and then pleads for forgiveness and acknowledges the mistake.

+10000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man up and file for divorce.

It might not be that easy for some men to just end it. Like myself at one point, the OP is in the denial stage and really wants to give her the benefit of the doubt.

Question for the OP is, are you comfortable living with someone who brags/fantacizes to her girlfriend about another man's sexual performance and not yours? It is demoralizing, emasculating and embarrassing, but certainly you deserve better!

A question for you (I'm not the OP). When you were in the denial phase, could anyone have said anything to help you see your DW for what she was? I'm so tired of seeing a loved one hurt by the liar he's married to, while others get blamed.

No, because denial means your brain and emotions still want to believe something which does not exist as the reality. So even though my ex-DW (now referred to as b!tch), was betraying me, because of my feelings for her, my brain and emotions denied the reality of the situation. It was not until I sat with a trained professional/specialist that my emotions eventually came around, and I had clarity of mind for what I needed to do.

Divorce is a wonderful thing. We should embrace and celebrate it. Can be more liberating than sex... win-win if you divorce and have sex freely

Glad you're in a better place.

I really hope one day my loved one has a spouse to share a happy home with.