Chlamydia

[Anonymous]

Dear lord you women are uptight.

OP don't listen to these dried up old hags. And I understand having needs...and I'm even female! It sounds like we used to say about waiting for the city bus...you wait forever for one then three come along together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dear lord you women are uptight.

OP don't listen to these dried up old hags. And I understand having needs...and I'm even female! It sounds like we used to say about waiting for the city bus...you wait forever for one then three come along together.

All I can think about after reading this is The Ladies Man and bus station skanks. Lol

I'd dump OP

[Anonymous]

I have nothing against frequent casual sex on a moral level it's that it's impractical in regards to stds and pregnancy.

[Anonymous]

Damn well I am judging here:

1. Two sexual partners so quickly without knowing their status, just in case sh!t happens.

2. Condom breaking/not remembering using a condom tells some about the OP and her lack of control over her own sexual health.

3. Asking an online community for advice how to approach Guy 2 about something so personal instead of your local doctor/nurse/pharmacist.

4. I am sorry, but SERIOUSLY....?!

While condom slippage/breakage can happen to anyone (and sorry for your infection), I can't help but say you are really reckless. Now this is why guys like me really don't get down with just any girl too quickly, and one-night stands are strictly reserved for older recently divorced women who are most like 'safe' and just want companionship from a trusted younger guy. Smh!

[Anonymous]

Op here
My dr wasn't very helpful about how to approach this. So I figured I'd ask here. There are tons of people here and I figured maybe someone's been in a similar situation before and can give me some tips.

Yes, I had 2 partners within less than two months. Those were my only parents within the last year, so I refuse to be slut shamed about this.
I made a mistake and I'm trying to do the right thing and own up to it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here
My dr wasn't very helpful about how to approach this. So I figured I'd ask here. There are tons of people here and I figured maybe someone's been in a similar situation before and can give me some tips.

Yes, I had 2 partners within less than two months. Those were my only parents within the last year, so I refuse to be slut shamed about this.
I made a mistake and I'm trying to do the right thing and own up to it.

Only parents?lmao

[Anonymous]

Oh shoot! I thought this was another post about names for baby girls.

[Anonymous]

You're fine OP, much more mature than most here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here
My dr wasn't very helpful about how to approach this. So I figured I'd ask here. There are tons of people here and I figured maybe someone's been in a similar situation before and can give me some tips.

Yes, I had 2 partners within less than two months. Those were my only parents within the last year, so I refuse to be slut shamed about this.
I made a mistake and I'm trying to do the right thing and own up to it.

Eh I don't believe you and I bet your current partner won't either

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Damn well I am judging here:

1. Two sexual partners so quickly without knowing their status, just in case sh!t happens.

2. Condom breaking/not remembering using a condom tells some about the OP and her lack of control over her own sexual health.

3. Asking an online community for advice how to approach Guy 2 about something so personal instead of your local doctor/nurse/pharmacist.

4. I am sorry, but SERIOUSLY....?!

While condom slippage/breakage can happen to anyone (and sorry for your infection), I can't help but say you are really reckless. Now this is why guys like me really don't get down with just any girl too quickly, and one-night stands are strictly reserved for older recently divorced women who are most like 'safe' and just want companionship from a trusted younger guy. Smh!

Interesting blend of sheer stupidity with tone of smug superiority. Well done.

[Anonymous]

OP, I feel for you. I've only ever had one STI in my life - and it was Chlamydia. It also happened to me after years of long term monogamy and being out of a relationship for the first time in ages. I had a casual fling with a much younger woman and she had no idea she'd had it. A couple of weeks later I started dating someone on Match and over a month after that I discovered 'discharge' - we'd been using condoms so not that big a deal, but she was super-paranoid about STIs (works in reproductive health field) and I thought that would be splitsville. I think it did introduce an ultimately fatal lack of trust. I had been screened before we started doing much, but of course, they don't test for that unless you have discharge.