Anonymous wrote:Your issue is you stay or work at home, so guests or extended houseguests may assume you are cooking each meal for them.
Anyone staying in our house for more than a few days knows to buy and make their own food, regardless of my schedule. I do not have time to shop and cook two additional adults for weeks and weeks. In addition to my schedule, husbands and kids's schedule.
Most houseguests know to bring a gift, offer to cook dinners, take us out to dinner, etc. Living in someone else's house isn't all about freebies.
tell that to my mil. she never offers to cook and rarely offers to buy takeout. instead she announces what she wants, where she wants it from, and expects someone to fetch everything for her.
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