Urgent help please, family drama

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here- Thank you. I really appreciate this advice. People on DCUM usually post MYOB about everything, so I know what I need to do. My brother and I have never been close, and my SIL is such a sweet person. He's an excellent liar and my Mom keeps bailing him out over and over again. She said she's asked him for bank statements but it will take a few days because his lies literally go back years. I have always suspected he was lying and my Mom was cleaning up and covering up, but I try to stay out of the drama. She's going to call me tonight after my brother goes to sleep, so I'll know more then. I don't know how much she knows, I'm thinking I'll just tell her the major lies and let her find out the rest from the bank statements.

It's not an myob situation if she's asking. Tell her the truth. Don't exaggerate, don't speculate, just tell her what you know to be true. She deserves to be able to make her decisions based on truth, not lies.

[Anonymous]

Tell her the truth. If she ends her pregnancy it will be because your brother lied to her, not because you told her he lied. Even if you don't tell her, she may still find out. You lying to her can lead to nothing productive and, if she is a nice person as you say, she doesn't need anyone else lying to her.

[Anonymous]

Update, please? Hoping everything turned out ok.