| Every person is different. Comes from a different situation, handles things differently. There is literally no way to tell what can happen or exactly how you should proceed. |
| You've seen the guy twice and you are asking about getting hurt and marriage? Wtf? I'd run away too. |
Where did the OP suggest marriage?! She is saying she is more interested in normal with the new guy who has a similar status, and seeking on advice for potential red flags. Risk vs naively being hurt again. Re-read the OP. |