Inlaws who drink a lot

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband and I are not big drinkers. Every time my inlaws come to visit, they bring large amounts of beer and wine into our house. They move groceries out of the fridge or around the fridge so that they can fit all of their beer. They drink all day long in front of my kids for days in a row. How do I request that they drink less when they visit, without implying that they have a drinking problem?

How is this NOT a drinking problem? All day, every day? Asking them to stop is going to cause a fight? It sounds like they have a problem.

OP again- I think they do have a problem as everything revolves around them having access to beer and wine. But my entire inlaw family thinks their behavior is normal. They are even in a drinking club that travels to breweries and wineries a few times per year. I know if I even mentioned it, they would all jump on me.