| Ivy grad for business school. DH is a carpenter with no degree. Want to guess which one of us earns more? |
| I thought it would take longer before this turned into an us versus them. What a drag. |
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I'm very surprised no one has brought up military service. Despite the hardship and sacrifice involved, it is a great route to a solidly middle-class life as long as you plan properly and use it to learn an actual trade (as opposed to just being an infantry grunt).
(full disclosure: I went the college/career route, but have always respected and admired those who joined the military and used the experience to make something of themselves) |
| My mom is a hairdresser and makes 80k in Akron Ohio (aka where 80k is a nice life) |
My dad, a corporate lawyer, always said he wished he had gone to veterinary school. |
Does she have to cover shop/booth costs, though? What is her net? |
Me too! Because the Ivy business grad school offered me more money than the other grad schools that accepted me for "public policy." I now pull in about $150K/year, as does DH. Reading financial statements and squeezing additional pennies into profit margins holds absolutely no interest for me, despite the A's I earned in accounting and other classes, so I always figured I'd suck on Wall Street and never even looked for a job there. I have two friends who started out on Wall Street: one left to start a french bakery, and the other now teaches (like others here, I see). |
My take away is: Be your authentic self, especially when courting your mate. |
In my imaginary life I own a (down home, community) hair salon. No one would ever think that, to look at me. |