He does not want to try anymore

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:why is he the loser? how is he stringing her along. this is the problem with women - you simply cannot accept reality - he has said it's over. yet you still fuck him in the hopes of getting back together.

you say you can't show him you've changed unless you're together again. wow. you need to look in the mirror and you'll see the problem. hate to be so blunt but this is on the both of you - not just him.

accept reality and finalize the divorce. focus on creating an incredible for your DS. heal and deal with all your issues.

GL

Yes, I accepted the reality a long time ago. But both of us are struggling with giving up the idea of the family. He put the house up for sale then took it off the market. He kept coming back because he thought there was a chance. Last time it was a total mistake and he realized he was misleading me. So yes I am hurt now because I know i can be different for us and our son. Anyway, seems like it is time to move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:why is he the loser? how is he stringing her along. this is the problem with women - you simply cannot accept reality - he has said it's over. yet you still fuck him in the hopes of getting back together.

you say you can't show him you've changed unless you're together again. wow. you need to look in the mirror and you'll see the problem. hate to be so blunt but this is on the both of you - not just him.

accept reality and finalize the divorce. focus on creating an incredible for your DS. heal and deal with all your issues.

GL

Yes, I accepted the reality a long time ago. But both of us are struggling with giving up the idea of the family. He put the house up for sale then took it off the market. He kept coming back because he thought there was a chance. Last time it was a total mistake and he realized he was misleading me. So yes I am hurt now because I know i can be different for us and our son. Anyway, seems like it is time to move on.

Except it can't be different for you guys as it has failed many times. Yes, it is time to move on. He's not a jerk for trying to make it work a couple of times but now he's realizing it isn't going to happen. I don't think that is leading someone on. That is someone trying to make it work but it isn't and he's finally done.

Time to move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We have been struggling with our relationship for 3 years. Our son is 2.

Did you think having a child would strengthen your relationship?

[Anonymous]

Some people have a hard time letting go of their suffering. Out of a fear of the unknown they prefer suffering that is familiar.