Apologize for being an asshole

[Anonymous]

This is the DH. I posted as my DW b/c I needed a reality check. DW andiI talked again about her driving. She said I can drive the kids to school and pick them up if I don't like how she drives. Othereise , I should STFU.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is the DH. I posted as my DW b/c I needed a reality check. DW andiI talked again about her driving. She said I can drive the kids to school and pick them up if I don't like how she drives. Othereise , I should STFU.

Well, here are the possibilities. Either:
1. you didn't capture her reasoning/perspective very well,
2. she is incredibly self-centered and complete lacks self-awareness,
3. she's a crazy person

[Anonymous]

Whoa dude, you are seriously....I don't even know what.

It's so impossible to know what is true and what is not here, but I will say unless you are willing to drop off kids and pick them up there's not much you can do about her driving. If she is really unsafe, that's one thing, but just like she can't control you, you can't control her.

And? Watch a rom com every once in a while.

You both seem like right fighters - you'd rather be right than be happy. And you're both keeping score. Let it go sometimes and try living in peace.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is the DH. I posted as my DW b/c I needed a reality check. DW andiI talked again about her driving. She said I can drive the kids to school and pick them up if I don't like how she drives. Othereise , I should STFU.

I would love to hear the whole story from her point of view.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is the DH. I posted as my DW b/c I needed a reality check. DW andiI talked again about her driving. She said I can drive the kids to school and pick them up if I don't like how she drives. Othereise , I should STFU.

Dude if you want any semblance of peace and sanity in your life you'll STFU about everything not just her driving.
You're not gonna beat your DW in a bitching contest trust me.

[Anonymous]

I love coming onto this forum. Just when I think my relationship is messy, I see this shit and realize I am farting rainbows over here.

[Anonymous]

I think this post is phony. What a bunch of phonies.

[Anonymous]

Let me get this straight. You did not like your husband's choice of movie so he has to APOLOGIZE???? Wow. Just wow. Then you kick him out of the car because he tells you to slow down. So he takes Metro.

And your read of this situation is that "he insults me, refuses to apologize, forces me to drive around looking for him, won't answer his phone, and now I am so upset."

You sound psychotic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love coming onto this forum. Just when I think my relationship is messy, I see this shit and realize I am farting rainbows over here.

I know!!!! I was every so slightly depressed about my own marriage. Now I am skipping and singing!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love coming onto this forum. Just when I think my relationship is messy, I see this shit and realize I am farting rainbows over here.

LOL.

Time for me to go tend my unicorn herd.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is the DH. I posted as my DW b/c I needed a reality check. DW andiI talked again about her driving. She said I can drive the kids to school and pick them up if I don't like how she drives. Othereise , I should STFU.

I would love to hear the whole story from her point of view.

I know, kicking him out of the car was 100% justified.

[Anonymous]

Cray. Cray.

[Anonymous]

I wonder if what is happening here is that he really is an asshole and she just blew finally. I Bet she was going 22 in the school zone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love coming onto this forum. Just when I think my relationship is messy, I see this shit and realize I am farting rainbows over here.

So true!

My husband is so thankful I read these things - he ends up looking like Mr. Perfect!

[Anonymous]

this has got to be a troll right?