Is this wrong?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yeah, I think it's wrong not to visit more often than once a year. The thought makes me sad.

It is not HIS grandmother, it is his WIFE's grandmother. I worked for years at a nursing home and for someone to get a visitor once a week...that is HUGE. The vast majority of them get only a handful of visits a year-with many of them spending the holidays alone.

OP already sounds generous in supporting his wife's "once a week" visits. He can do the occasional visit as it is not his grandmother.