What do you think of my unique sex life?

[Anonymous]

http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/gossip/love-contracts-demands-weight-drugs-cheating-sex-article-1.1362310


Or A hooker is much better than marriage, as a bonus less unnecessary talking

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is our sex life. DH is a one trick pony and I have some physical issues that limit things, so I let him have at it whenever, but fortunately things are slowing down for him, too. I really just want to get it over with.

How does that happen? Don't you want a good sex life?

[Anonymous]

I think all married sex gets boring after a while. If you had filet mignon every day for a decade, wouldn't you be sick of it?

If you love her and are otherwise happy with the marriage, I'd close my eyes, think of Cindy Crawford, and count myself lucky.

[Anonymous]

OMG! OP, you have a TERRIBLE sex life. And your poor wife has an even worse one. You sound like the worst lover imaginable. I feel so sorry for your wife, letting you climb on top and pump away whenever you please. That is so sad. I love sex but you don't know how to turn your wife on It sounds just awful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OMG! OP, you have a TERRIBLE sex life. And your poor wife has an even worse one. You sound like the worst lover imaginable. I feel so sorry for your wife, letting you climb on top and pump away whenever you please. That is so sad. I love sex but you don't know how to turn your wife on It sounds just awful.

She doesn't have any responsibility to try to make it better for both of them?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OMG! OP, you have a TERRIBLE sex life. And your poor wife has an even worse one. You sound like the worst lover imaginable. I feel so sorry for your wife, letting you climb on top and pump away whenever you please. That is so sad. I love sex but you don't know how to turn your wife on It sounds just awful.

She doesn't have any responsibility to try to make it better for both of them?

Are you joking? He isn't even getting her turned on and he feels okay about the fact that it hurts her! No. She might need therapy but she is obviously doing the best she can to satisfy him and he is not doing his job for her.

[Anonymous]

I think your sex life is awful.

I get way less wex from my wife than I'd like. Probably close to 3xs a month, but when it happens it is dirty filthy sex that would make Tori Black blush. I feel like my wife only can have sex once every 10 days because she puts in so much effort. I like it because it gives me pleanty of material inbetween sessions. If I'm feeling real lucky she lets me video her.

I'd take my infrequent sex over your vanilla sex all day long.

[Anonymous]

Op - if your wife is never interested in sex, you are not offering sex that is interesting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op - if your wife is never interested in sex, you are not offering sex that is interesting.

Ding Ding Ding...we have a winner!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op - if your wife is never interested in sex, you are not offering sex that is interesting.

Ding Ding Ding...we have a winner!!

Yup yup. Do you go down on her, OP? Warm her up (externally) with a small vibrator? Tease her with some gentle but well-placed touching? Unless she's got no clit, that stuff never hurts. And makes whatever comes after it a lot more enjoyable.

Also, if she's on hormonal birth control, that could be killing her sex drive and even make it a little painful. Don't know if she is, but just throwing it out there.

[Anonymous]

Several people seem to think it's all my fault. I admit it might very slightly be my fault. But I had nothing to do with her poor sex education or her physical constraints. She has never had great sex with anyone else. She tells me that quite a few women never or rarely reach an orgasm. And we all know that many women fake it. So I know she is not alone in not enjoying it. And it's not as if she completely hates having sex. She likes the intimacy but she doesn't reach an orgasm and usually isn't excited by anything.

I'm glad a couple other posters are in the same boat and actually think I should be reasonably happy. Most of the time, I'm quite happy. Our lives outside of sex is great too, which is even more important.

In terms of frequency, sometimes I want it every night or even twice a day. Sometimes just once a week or so. As I said before, I love the fact that I can dictate the frequency. Regarding masturbation, I think she is OK with it as long as I don't overdo it. When she is feeling tired, she probably prefers it, but we never really discuss it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OMG! OP, you have a TERRIBLE sex life. And your poor wife has an even worse one. You sound like the worst lover imaginable. I feel so sorry for your wife, letting you climb on top and pump away whenever you please. That is so sad. I love sex but you don't know how to turn your wife on It sounds just awful.

She doesn't have any responsibility to try to make it better for both of them?

Are you joking? He isn't even getting her turned on and he feels okay about the fact that it hurts her! No. She might need therapy but she is obviously doing the best she can to satisfy him and he is not doing his job for her.

I disagree. It sounds like she's leaving everything up to him. Since sex is emotional for us women, we need to put some effort into it. A healthy sex life is not a 1 person job.

[Anonymous]

You are bizarre OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is our sex life. DH is a one trick pony and I have some physical issues that limit things, so I let him have at it whenever, but fortunately things are slowing down for him, too. I really just want to get it over with.

+1

[Anonymous]

You should get her a vibrator or dildo. She probably doesn't know what good sex is. If my husband (who is on the small size) could perform like the toys, I would enjoy sex more often. Otherwise, like your wife, I just want it over and done quick.