Friend's husband made comment about me...WWYD?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To tell his wife he wants to have sex with you is one thing

For his wife to tell you he wants to have sex with you is another thing.

Sounds like they were feeling you out for a threesome/swinging.

+1

[Anonymous]

Swingers"

[Anonymous]

OP, I disagree with everyone's replies. I would tell my husband and figure out what, if anything, to do from there. It would totally creep me out and I wouldn't want the husband to spend the night at my house. ...although I wouldn't want to create drama either. You and your husband should talk over how to handle it. I would wish my friend never told me that!!!

[Anonymous]

When your husband is asleep on Friday, just tiptoe into his room and ask him

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, I disagree with everyone's replies. I would tell my husband and figure out what, if anything, to do from there. It would totally creep me out and I wouldn't want the husband to spend the night at my house. ...although I wouldn't want to create drama either. You and your husband should talk over how to handle it. I would wish my friend never told me that!!!

If you really don't want to create drama, then don't create drama.

OP for god's sake keep your mouth shut and move on with your life.

[Anonymous]

Your friend never should have mentioned it. Honestly if it was to check if you would be interested in a threesome, I would be uncomfortable after being friends.

[Anonymous]

I would pretend I never heard what my friend said. I would tell her I don't want to hear that mentioned ever again. I would let the husband stay over and pretend to know nothing.

Should he attempt to bring it up if we were alone I'd tell him I loved his wife more than I liked him and walk away. End of that nonsense.

[Anonymous]

I would not give it another thought, including not caring if he slept in the guest room.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like she's feeling out a threesome. I'd pretend it never happened.

[Anonymous]

I would tell him. I was in a situation in college once (two engaged couples) and I was the only one who couldn't go through with the "swap". It was awful and awkward and help contribute to the break up of my relationship. The other relationship broke up not long afterwards. I would not be able to keep that from my husband because it would be impossible for me to pretent that nothing was said. Sort of like people say you can't "unsee" things.

[Anonymous]

I would tell my husband because I would be pissed if he held onto that information. He is super disrespectful, Craig.

[Anonymous]

Wow...Talk about awkward.

Honestly OP, if you tell your husband that you do not want Craig to spend the night, he will most definitely want to know why not and unless you tell him, he will never understand. Plus, just you suddenly not wanting Craig to stay over will draw huge suspicion from him. Are you ready to deal w/the fallout if the truth emerges??

If not, then you have no choice but to suck it up and keep your mouth shut.
Just be civil to Craig and try not to let him get to you.
Maybe you can take another approach to what he told Amy.

Perhaps he said it in jest. Like in a flattering way that he meant it to mean he thinks you are attractive, but would actually never sleep w/you in reality.

However, it is your home and your call ultimately here.

[Anonymous]

Screw it, this is anonymous, I'd flirt with her husband just for the thrill of it and then let my own husband reap the rewards of my ego boost.