question for the ladies - about on-line dating

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't contact her OP. She gave you nothing back. dating isn't just a one way responsibility on the guy's part to pursue and whine and dine her while coming on strong enough but not too strong.

She didn't even reply to your 'had a good time' email. If she isn't going to communicate with you and interpreted a few lines in an email as you not doing enough....is this really a woman you want to try and convince to go out with your again? If she was interested she also has a responsibility to communicate in a way that says that. She didn't. Either she wasn't interested at all, no spark or she is playing head games with you and enjoys drama.

So no. I see nothing to be gained by contacting her.

[Anonymous]

What do you have to lose? So you'll be a little embarrassed if you ask and she says no, or blows you off, or thinks you're weird. She's basically a stranger. So who cares if she thinks you're weird.

You will never know if you don't try. Just ask her.

[Anonymous]

it's absolutely amazing the high and might tone the ladies have taken on this post. just absolutely fucking amazing.

i personally think most, if not all, of you are full of total shit. you jump on OP saying he didn't come across confidently when only 1 or 2 of you actually asked a question rather than assume.

Yeah, sure, you want "nice" guy who is confident but not arrogant, and god forbid, cocky. you want a guy who is masculine but in touch with his emotions.

Uh huh, have you read the numerous other posting in this forum? you all so full of shit. you will suck the dick and take it hard from the guy who treats you like total crap - don't deny it. you're just projecting on this poor guy all your own fucking nightmares.

give me a fucking break

[Anonymous]

20:24, you are insane.

If you are online dating, PLEASE copy this post and paste it into your profile so everyone knows to stay the hell away from the crazy.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, don't tell a woman after the first date that she should let you know if she'd like to go out again. That's lame. Ask her out again within a day or two. Your way, I would have felt like, OK, he likes me "enough" but not enough to actually ask me out. It's not about being chased exactly, but about making your interest known.