Is This Verbal/Mental/Emotional, etc. Abuse In Your Opinion Everyone?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The fucked up thing is that you probably find this guy sexier and more interesting than a straight arrow guy who didn't cause you any drama.

Honestly...No I do not.

I would love to meet a straight arrow guy.

If I could.

Why can't you? I don't mean to be snarky by asking this. I used to have horrible boyfriends. They were mean,disrespectful, hurtful, etc. I realized I had terrible self esteem and once i got help and worked through my issues, i started dating guys i deserved. So first, dump him. Second, be single and take time for you. Everyone deserves a normal guy.

You attract people that are at your emotional level. It takes time for the self discovery process that is necessary to break free from your own emotional chains. Most people don't want to change. It is hard. But it can be done. Once you love yourself more, as cheesy as it sounds, you'll attract someone just as healthy as you are.

[Anonymous]

Before you even mentioned drugs, he sounded identical to my drug addict ex. 4 months into it he was acting the same way and doing the same things but I didn't realize he was an addict yet. Soon, I found the pills. But by then I lived with him and he was physically abusing me (once I moved in) and I felt like I had nowhere to go.

DUMP HIM. or soon you will be in a physically abusive relationship with an addict. Trust me, he's a drug addict. Maybe he isn't using now, maybe he is, but sooner or later, he's be full on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The fucked up thing is that you probably find this guy sexier and more interesting than a straight arrow guy who didn't cause you any drama.

Honestly...No I do not.

I would love to meet a straight arrow guy.

If I could.

Why can't you? I don't mean to be snarky by asking this. I used to have horrible boyfriends. They were mean,disrespectful, hurtful, etc. I realized I had terrible self esteem and once i got help and worked through my issues, i started dating guys i deserved. So first, dump him. Second, be single and take time for you. Everyone deserves a normal guy.

You attract people that are at your emotional level. It takes time for the self discovery process that is necessary to break free from your own emotional chains. Most people don't want to change. It is hard. But it can be done. Once you love yourself more, as cheesy as it sounds, you'll attract someone just as healthy as you are.

This is true. Go to Al-Anon.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Before you even mentioned drugs, he sounded identical to my drug addict ex. 4 months into it he was acting the same way and doing the same things but I didn't realize he was an addict yet. Soon, I found the pills. But by then I lived with him and he was physically abusing me (once I moved in) and I felt like I had nowhere to go.

DUMP HIM. or soon you will be in a physically abusive relationship with an addict. Trust me, he's a drug addict. Maybe he isn't using now, maybe he is, but sooner or later, he's be full on.

Same poster -

GROSS! I just got to the bottom of your post with the molestation stuff. How shit balls. RUN FORREST RUN!!! Your son deserves so much. dont be selfish.

[Anonymous]

OP, you know what the answer is. Step up and do what you know you have to do. End this and cut him off. No more calls, texts or emails.

"I need to end this relationship. I wish you well in your life." Just repeat that no more than 5 times. Then cut off communication.

You can do this.

[Anonymous]

OP, he is possessive, controlling, distrustful, and is trying to gaslight you. And the molestation thing is just a huge red flag. What more would it take to get you to end it? Get out now before it gets worse. Good luck. You deserve much better.

[Anonymous]

OP realises that he is nuts and is planning to send him "on his merry way"; She is asking what should be done to protect his kid....

[Anonymous]

Get him out of your life. Only advice about his kid is to call an advice line and ask THEIR advice. Seriously.

[Anonymous]

This man sounds like he is mentally ill, or as another poster suggested, some sort of drug addict.

[Anonymous]

There is no hope for this relationship GET OUT NOW!

[Anonymous]

If you choose to be with this thing after all you posted, you get what you get.

Be smart, GET RID OF HIM before you end up beaten and your kid getting taken from you.

[Anonymous]

The dude is CRAZY, crazy I say! Why would you even bother writing about him.I'd be busy getting rid of him...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He sounds like a psychopath. I would get rid of him ASAP.

This. Run, OP.

[Anonymous]

Get out. Get rid of him, please. Once your answers aren't good enough for him he'll start shoving you and then it's downhill from there.

[Anonymous]

No doubt about it, it's verbal/mental/emotional abuse PLUS a whole lot of psychopath crazy thrown in.