Pierced ears in little girls is def trailer park trash...

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote: I don't get why a parent would want to cause their child pain at such a tender age. It might not hurt for long but the baby certainly never asked for it.


Did they ask for foreskin mutilation?

It's cultural and there's no harm. Come on.



But why hurt a child when it's not necessary?


Because its CULTURAL!!!!!!! Did you read that? The nurses do it as soon as the baby comes out.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote: I don't get why a parent would want to cause their child pain at such a tender age. It might not hurt for long but the baby certainly never asked for it.


If you have a son, did you also not circumcise the child to to causing pain? It's a culture thing, get over it. My mother pierced my ears at weeks of age as well. I never regretted having pierced ears.



Well to me a 'cultural thing' isn't reason enough to alter a child's body part. But that's just my opinion...
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote: I don't get why a parent would want to cause their child pain at such a tender age. It might not hurt for long but the baby certainly never asked for it.


If you have a son, did you also not circumcise the child to to causing pain? It's a culture thing, get over it. My mother pierced my ears at weeks of age as well. I never regretted having pierced ears.



Well to me a 'cultural thing' isn't reason enough to alter a child's body part. But that's just my opinion...


Her ears were also pierced and it's not a big deal. In brazil the earrings are given to the nursery nurses. The baby leaves the hospital with it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I've never ever heard in my life about people who referred to babies or girls with earrings are trashy until I discovered this site. I honestly don't get it and don't get why others are so opinionated about it.


Nor I. Those that are should be far more worried about what would lead them to calling a child trashy or ghetto. Plenty to worry about there.
Anonymous
It's funny reading this site.....black folks have been piercing our babies ears for decades. My great grandmother pierced mine at. 2 mos. I have two daughters, one got them at 3 ms, the other at 9 mos only because her ears were so tiny I had to wait.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I've never ever heard in my life about people who referred to babies or girls with earrings are trashy until I discovered this site. I honestly don't get it and don't get why others are so opinionated about it.


+1
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It's funny reading this site.....black folks have been piercing our babies ears for decades. My great grandmother pierced mine at. 2 mos. I have two daughters, one got them at 3 ms, the other at 9 mos only because her ears were so tiny I had to wait.



I'm black and no baby girl's ear has been pierced in my family. My mother waited to have my ears pierced until I asked for it. I was 3. I'll do the same with my girls.
Anonymous
I remember getting my ears pieced at 4. I remember wanting pierced ears and I remember it hurting. I probably would rather have not remembered it (ie having it done as an infant), but earrings on a girl is pretty much inevitable.

Anonymous
OP is racist classist trash. Too bad for her kids.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP is racist classist trash. Too bad for her kids.


I'm the OP and I was being sarcastic. Since when GB is trashy?????
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I've never ever heard in my life about people who referred to babies or girls with earrings are trashy until I discovered this site. I honestly don't get it and don't get why others are so opinionated about it.


+1


+2

I had my ears pierced as a baby and thank god!
I was not a cute baby. The earring were a needed distraction.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote: I don't get why a parent would want to cause their child pain at such a tender age. It might not hurt for long but the baby certainly never asked for it.

+1
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote: I don't get why a parent would want to cause their child pain at such a tender age. It might not hurt for long but the baby certainly never asked for it.

+1


I hope y'all aren't anti vaccine too, sheesh. It's better to do it younger because the baby doesn't remember it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It's funny reading this site.....black folks have been piercing our babies ears for decades. My great grandmother pierced mine at. 2 mos. I have two daughters, one got them at 3 ms, the other at 9 mos only because her ears were so tiny I had to wait.



I'm black and no baby girl's ear has been pierced in my family. My mother waited to have my ears pierced until I asked for it. I was 3. I'll do the same with my girls.



My point was this is not some trailer trash epidemic, and all of my friends with daughters had their ears pierced as infants. And for the record, this is a group of college educated women......
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote: I don't get why a parent would want to cause their child pain at such a tender age. It might not hurt for long but the baby certainly never asked for it.


If you have a son, did you also not circumcise the child to to causing pain? It's a culture thing, get over it. My mother pierced my ears at weeks of age as well. I never regretted having pierced ears.


Same here.
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