Rich husband or successful career?
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Anonymous
| Rich husband. I'd get massages, play tennis & swim while kids are at school. Heaven |
Anonymous
| I don't get why this is an "or" question. Are we playing a game? |
Anonymous
| Rich husband as long as I loved him and he supported my decision. I would work part-time at a job I loved but didn't take over my life. |
Anonymous
| I would like both, please. |
Anonymous
IRL I chose the rich husband. It's a really great life!  no stress.
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Anonymous
Unless he leaves you, or you want to leave him. |
Anonymous
Yes ... Because working moms don't love their kids? |
Anonymous
| Career. Divorce rate is too high for me to gamble on. If I make my own money, I'm safe and my child is safe. |
Anonymous
We don't believe in divorce. |
Anonymous
Me too. |
Anonymous
You don't believe in divorce the way I don't believe in the Tooth Fairy? |
Anonymous
What if his belief changes? |
Anonymous
HA! i hate when people say they don't believe in something that clearly exists. the tooth fairy is real people! |
Anonymous
Nope. SAHMs especially love their daughters. That's why they set such a great example for them! |
Anonymous
I have a Master's Degree and worked hard in my field until I had children. Now I SAH. When my kids hit school age, I carved out a little business for myself that doesn't detract in any way from my children. My daughter (middle child) is now 16, and in choosing her career path, said that she wants a career that will allow her flexibility to be home when the kids are, because it means a lot to her that I put she and her brothers over a high-powered career. I've set a GREAT example, thank you very much. |