Does your spouse have a friend you can't stand?

[Anonymous]

I can't stand my spouse, but I like all of her friends.

[Anonymous]

My wife has a "friend" she works with. A male that she made out with on more than one occasion while married to me. She never allows me to talk to him or interact with us as a couple, so I suspect they are more than friends. But I see that alternatives as sucking it up or breaking up our family. Neither is a good choice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, but he lives in another state. We don't see him that often.

+1.

[Anonymous]

Yes. My husband is friends with a couple whom I find depressing and tedious. Husband used to have the obvious hots for me, wife got defensive about me (good for her but please get mad at the right person -- I don't want to hang out with either of you), and when they finally got marriage counseling (good for them) they started being openly hostile to me and even encouraged my husband to leave me. Husband and I used to fight about whether they had redeeming qualities or belonged in his life at all. Eventually I just decided I don't much care. He makes plans with them on occasion and I ask him not to tell me they're getting together.