How to I get my boss to stop gossiping about me

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is it gossip or is she discussing w/HR, her own boss, or the ethics office, inhouse counsel, etc? If someone made a complaint about discrimination to me, as the manager, I had to report it to HR and discuss with the executive manager/director, probably with a company attorney, etc. People sometimes think confidentiality means you can't discuss w/anyone but in reality management has to report certain violations, complaints about illegal activity (such as harassment) to our upper management and our HR office.

Nope. She's telling my peers not in HR and they are her subordinates. She is gossiping.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:tell your boss directly that you are uncomfortable because you'v heard personal information being discussed in the company/organization and you are not sure how it could have gotten out. or, go to HR and DOCUMENT in writing your concerns if you can prove it was your boss. This way she can't retaliate against you.

I told the unit entitled to the reporting I would no longer include her on my forms and it old them why