| Thanks to everyone for the support and suggestions. You make it sound doable. I definitely need to get as much stuff out, and then let her slowly work stuff back, if at all, once she learns how to manage it better. I'll also start with checklist that is small enough that she doesn't realize it is a "checklist". She is turned off just by the suggestion of one. I have a tendency to over-complicate things, thinking my multi-colored, detailed, cross-referenced (kidding...) checklists are to die for. Clearly they are overwhelming. |