I agree you may need a "high impact" gift on Christmas for your DD, but wouldn't feel that it has to have the same monetary value. I'm thinking your DS will use the computer for school, but doesn't really "Need" it -- if it is a requirement for school, I wouldn't give it as a gift, however, if it will be used for both school and fun, I see it as a perfect xmas gift.
As a child my siblings and I always had the same number of packages to open, but the monetary value was different. One year my "big" gift was a gold fish -- I REALLY wanted a pet. My sister got a stereo. Looking back it seems unequal, but at the time it wasn't -- they were both things we REALLY wanted. Another year I got a new bike and she got mostly clothes. Again, not equal in value, but both high on our lists and equal to us at the time because they were items we had been hoping for.
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