Getting sick of babying bipolar husband

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Question, did you wedding vows read in "sickness and until I get sick of helping you?"

That is so unfair to say to someone that has been dealing with this kind of sickness for years and years, and her spouse is not putting in an effort to help himself. I have a BIL who is the same way, can't work, can't get along with anyone, and uses his illness to get whatever he wants from his wife who has worked her ass off for her family because he can't or won't. He is spoiled and feels entitled and sickens everyone who watches it, and I for one wishes that she kick his butt to the curb until he gets serious help and actually makes changes in his life. So, don't throw around judgements when you have not lived it. How unfair. It is horrible to watch and would not want to live it.

[Anonymous]

7:44 ^^

Why are you responding to a thread that is a year and half old???

[Anonymous]

Hahaha...there goes DCUM police. Be careful, you awful poster that revived an old thread, 7:47 is on patrol!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hahaha...there goes DCUM police. Be careful, you awful poster that revived an old thread, 7:47 is on patrol!

Damn right!

[Anonymous]

It's still relevant. I'm going thru divorce, very similar, long marriage to mentally ill man who wouldn't or couldn't find it in himself to take treatment seriously.

Feel like I've wasted so many years...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's still relevant. I'm going thru divorce, very similar, long marriage to mentally ill man who wouldn't or couldn't find it in himself to take treatment seriously.

Feel like I've wasted so many years...

BTDT pp. Your life can begin anew. My divorce took two solid, painful years, but it's over and I am finally happy. My kids live free of the uncertainty in their day-to-day lives. We have structure, routines and calm. No raging daddy disrupting our happiness.