Not invited to hang with the girls. Ouch.
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Anonymous
| You should reply to the thread. "Sounds like fun". That's all you need to say. |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
| Fuck those bitches. Seriously, find new friends. |
Anonymous
| I'd be a bit hurt also. |
Anonymous
| I'd be hurt, too, but I'm frequently the organizer of things and at some point I stop inviting people who always decline. I feel like I should take the hint and they don't want to hang out -- maybe it's me, maybe it's that they don't go out. Either way, I feel rude always inviting someone who always declines. Make sure you accept at times or organize something to your liking. |
Anonymous
| Could be there another reason? Like they're all friends with someone you dont know who is in town or something? |
Anonymous
i'd be hurt too. but certainly wouldn't respond "have fun." who cares. i'm never invited to things either.....maybe i'm not fun!  but my husband and kid think i am, so i'm fine with that.
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Anonymous
| Been there... it sucks. Time to hide them from your feed. |
Anonymous
| Maybe they are secretly throwing a surprise party for you and hiding? Ugh probably not... However, I am one of those that always decline invitations to outings that no one bothers to ask me anymore. They still talk about it in front me and I honestly do not care because I know I would never go. Have to get tough skin |
Anonymous
| Sorry OP, that sucks! I hate FB too. About a year ago, I found out through FB that my SIL gave my brother a big 40th bday surprise and didn't invite me. I'm still hurt. I hope you get over your hurt, I bet it's because you have a little one, but they should have given you the opportunity anyway, they are mean! |
Anonymous
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OP here. Thanks so much for all replies. It definitely helps knowing others go through this. I knew they did, but reading your comments definitely helped me to feel better. As some pointed out, I do say "no" a lot and that is something that I need to work on. I'm actually meeting up with some other friends this weekend and am excited about spending time with them.
Cheers and everyone enjoy the weekend! |