What have you told your husband about your menopause?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No night sweats
No hot flashes
HRT

52
Haven’t had a period in over a year
No hot flashes
Sometimes a night sweat but rarely
No hormones

Have not said anything to my husband bc I am not feeling any different

[Anonymous]

There were obvious changes to my body, that my dh could see / feel. Plus hot flashes. So we talk about it some and adjusted Pur sex life a little. It's been fine.

[Anonymous]

We don't treat it like a secret. It affects the temp in the room where we sleep, and he knows it is nonnegotiable.

It is one of the many stages in our life together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There were obvious changes to my body, that my dh could see / feel. Plus hot flashes. So we talk about it some and adjusted Pur sex life a little. It's been fine.

What bodily changes?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No night sweats
No hot flashes
HRT

52
Haven’t had a period in over a year
No hot flashes
Sometimes a night sweat but rarely
No hormones

Have not said anything to my husband bc I am not feeling any different

Same age. No hot flashes or night sweats ever. Also, don’t get moody every month like I use to. Sleep well. No weight gain. My skin looks great because I don’t break out. Not doing HRT.

I am more irritable though and not as easy going but that may just be age and not menopause.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No night sweats
No hot flashes
HRT

52
Haven’t had a period in over a year
No hot flashes
Sometimes a night sweat but rarely
No hormones

Have not said anything to my husband bc I am not feeling any different

Same age. No hot flashes or night sweats ever. Also, don’t get moody every month like I use to. Sleep well. No weight gain. My skin looks great because I don’t break out. Not doing HRT.

I am more irritable though and not as easy going but that may just be age and not menopause.

We could be twins!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There were obvious changes to my body, that my dh could see / feel. Plus hot flashes. So we talk about it some and adjusted Pur sex life a little. It's been fine.

What bodily changes?

Um, shrinkage of outside labia.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've mentioned the occassional hot flashes and insomnia but didn't go into much detail about my hormonal moods, irritable and mean.. thoughts that go with it. I try not to mention menopause in general, makes me feel old and I don't want to dwell on it nor have him to think of me that way. I'm secure in my marriage and myself overall but somehow .. menopause, just seems like another "category" or horrible situation.

You are incredibly insecure.
You are ashamed of your body.