S/O - Would people be shocked by your "behind closed doors" lifestyle?

[Anonymous]

More please! I'm so boring.

[Anonymous]

I'm pretty boring. People think I'm pretty creative and artsy but I am not really like that much at home and I don't have any crafty crap that I've made decorating my house. That might surprise some people. Also, I can be pretty lazy when I am at home...I seriously don't care if the dishes sit in the sink overnight, or even over the weekend. So not an issue with me but when I'm at other's houses or at work, i am the exact opposite (which is probably why I hate doing housework at home.)

[Anonymous]

i think people would be much more shocked to find out how much I like porn rather than how we spend/don't spend our money.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH and I have an open relationship and have been happy that way for 20 years.

I'm jealous. I've danced around this subject with DH, but he only half bites. He's only cool with me being with girls and I like guys.

[Anonymous]

Me like this thread so much more than the other one. No, my liFestyle wouldn't shock anyone

[Anonymous]

Shocked by how boring it is, maybe.

[Anonymous]

Gross, I can't imagine having sex with anyone but my husband. I know he is clean and where he has been. I would need to sanitze and scour any other dude. Just nasty to think about it.

[Anonymous]

So... that's a no then? That's all you had to say instead of being Judgey The Cow.

[Anonymous]

This is wrong on so many levels. Come on people, why did you get married? And don't say it was for the insurance, the money, whatever. Don't get married, then you can have all the sex you want. And the bonus is you won't have to call yourself a swinger, you can just be an honest to goodness slut.

[Anonymous]

This is so gross!

I wonder if your kids will be proud of you when they find out where you were when you left them for your "date night".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is wrong on so many levels. Come on people, why did you get married? And don't say it was for the insurance, the money, whatever. Don't get married, then you can have all the sex you want. And the bonus is you won't have to call yourself a swinger, you can just be an honest to goodness slut.

Well, I'm not a swinger, but I think the answer for your question is that marriage is about a lot more than sex. So if you want those things (companionship, family) the single life is not a good alternative.

I would never in a million years do it myself. But I can see how two adults can decide that sexual monogamy is not a necessary part of a marriage. Not everyone thinks that sex and love are tied together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:i think people would be much more shocked to find out how much I like porn rather than how we spend/don't spend our money.

We know you are watching goat pr0n. Come out of your house with your hands, er, up!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Gross, I can't imagine having sex with anyone but my husband. I know he is clean and where he has been. I would need to sanitze and scour any other dude. Just nasty to think about it.

So provincial. I have never cheated. But no one has ever made it worth my while. I don't rule it out, ever. I still love my DH.

[Anonymous]

The dust bunnies. I think people would be aghast at the amount of them. I say nothing to the cleaning girl about them because she spends all of her time here just rearranging things on my shelves as far as I can tell--and she's so young and I'm worried she may be a slave of the older cleaning lady who owns the cleaning company.

I need a new cleaner.

[Anonymous]

CFNM who knew? http://www.cfnm.net/index2.php?nats=MDowOjQ&step=2

Will be keeping that behind a closed door for sure.