Why do women put up with losers after 40?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:At breakfast there was a loud, obnoxious man who if I had to guess was Eastern European. He was attempting to flirt with a college aged girl sitting at another table asking her all sorts of personal questions. Finally his American wife appears with their food (food is picked up from the counter) and she kept running up and back to their table bringing butter, syrup, coffee ,milk etc and probably paid for it herself too with him never once getting up or offering to help her. She then starts complaining that she’s done with him unless they have a baby soon because she’s getting too old. He makes a joke about maybe they should adopt a Chinese baby but then remembers a violent felony from 8 years ago so they can’t adopt. He then proceeded to ask her if she’ll buy him beer when breakfast is over. They quickly had breakfast and left with her driving with him away in a Mercedes. Through this conversation it was revealed she is some kind of health professional. Why put up with such a loser? The only good reason I could think of is she’s over 40. Why are ladies putting up with this crap? Stay single and have a baby on your own if you want. They are bringing nothing to the table but trouble.

How about you worry about you? Wow, what a lot of energy you invested in eavesdropping and then posting this.

[Anonymous]

Maybe they have a sub-dom dynamic that she in fact enjoys. Usually the distinction feeds both parties.

I remember when i was married some couples friends would attend the parties at our house. And they literally would verbally abuse each other in front of other guests. My exH and are were discussing how it’s even possible for them to stay together.

Guess what? I’m divorced and these screamers are all still married to each other

[Anonymous]

They don't, usually. Most women who are 40 and still want to have kids would try IVF and be a single mom by choice over settling for a loser. Why would you settle at 40 if you didn't in the previous 2 decades?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They don't, usually. Most women who are 40 and still want to have kids would try IVF and be a single mom by choice over settling for a loser. Why would you settle at 40 if you didn't in the previous 2 decades?

The guy is a jerk but he gives her great sex. That's why she stays. I have never seen a woman leaving a man that gives her great sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They don't, usually. Most women who are 40 and still want to have kids would try IVF and be a single mom by choice over settling for a loser. Why would you settle at 40 if you didn't in the previous 2 decades?

The guy is a jerk but he gives her great sex. That's why she stays. I have never seen a woman leaving a man that gives her great sex.

Eastern European men are usually very strong in that department so it's the best guess here

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They don't, usually. Most women who are 40 and still want to have kids would try IVF and be a single mom by choice over settling for a loser. Why would you settle at 40 if you didn't in the previous 2 decades?

The guy is a jerk but he gives her great sex. That's why she stays. I have never seen a woman leaving a man that gives her great sex.

Bs they are not 20 anymore women aren't sex crazed

[Anonymous]

Were your family or friends with you at breakfast, OP? I am sure they would appreciate your undivided attention 😔.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They don't, usually. Most women who are 40 and still want to have kids would try IVF and be a single mom by choice over settling for a loser. Why would you settle at 40 if you didn't in the previous 2 decades?

The guy is a jerk but he gives her great sex. That's why she stays. I have never seen a woman leaving a man that gives her great sex.

no, it happens. I left my ex and he was best in bed I ever had but very mean and a**hole other than that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They don't, usually. Most women who are 40 and still want to have kids would try IVF and be a single mom by choice over settling for a loser. Why would you settle at 40 if you didn't in the previous 2 decades?

Very few women become a single mom by choice. Give up your single life to be a single parent? Get out, that's way worse than settling. At least you get child support if you settle.

[Anonymous]

Low self esteem

[Anonymous]

I normally refrain from calling “troll” but this post is obviously a made up story.

I think it is very transparent too.

[Anonymous]

What kind of racist BS is this? I’m Eastern European and we have much higher percentages of women scientists, engineers, doctors, etc. than do Anglo countries. The men and the women are much more family oriented.

You may have run into some kind of degenerate with a desperate wife, but please leave the rest of us out of it.

[Anonymous]

This situation cannot be believed.

I think this entire story is made up!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You got it all during 30 minutes of breakfast?

Yes, from small romance book.

[Anonymous]

The same reasons why they put up with loser men in their 20s and 30s.