| Op, is your parent currently on hospice? |
What type of facility were they in? |
We had him at home. This was during Covid and there weren't any good options. |
Depends on the facility. Larger places, certainly. My aunt and uncle were in a smaller place in West Virginia that did assisted living through hospice in the same location. My uncle lived with my aunt in the same unit until the end of his life. He passed away in a home-like environment surrounded by his family. It was really as good a set-up as they could have wanted. |
| You can keep them in their own home (assuming they are currently living in an independent setting), but hospice team will not be there 24/7, and you likely will need to bring in additional help. |
Assisted living through hospice is not a thing. It’s a question of state licensing regulations, not size of the facility. Perhaps your uncle was in an independent living faculty or a facility with continuing care. |
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If they entered the assisted living at the accepted level of care, then got worse, they are likely allowed to stay if family organizes the additional care. Not always, but sometimes.
If they are trying to enter and exceed accepted level of care- mostly no. You can ask- but be prepared, it will be very expensive. |
This is what we're looking for. Did the place have multiple licenses or like one umbrella license? How do we find a list of facilities with the appropriate license(s) to contact? |
You don't age out but as your needs change and your level of care changes, you will not longer be eligible for assisted living. You'll need nursing home care. Hospice is not 24-7 care except if its at their facility. Its check in so you still need nursing care. |
What state are you in? |
Was this one of those independent homes that legally can have just a few people? |
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Op, how far away is your parent from needing hospice care? Is it a several years away or several weeks away situation? Continuing care facilities often only accept new patients who currently only need whatever is their lowest level of service. Also good facilities at any level often have waitlists.
If you want meaningful answers, you need to indicate the state and what your mom’s current needs are. |
Maryland. |
No. It was a full-fledged facility. I’m the one who did the research for the family. They told us they could handle assisted living through end of life, and that’s what they delivered. |
This. You would be expected to pay the assisted living price. Then you'd have to pay for the 24/7 care that would be required. Hospice (in my experience) is paid for by Medicare if one qualifies. |