Former stepfather keeps contacting me and asking about my mother—need advice!

[Anonymous]

Call cops

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Call cops

X100. He sounds like a creep.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If he is calling your cell phone just block his number.

OP says they've blocked multiple times.

I'm sorry, OP. When he texts or calls don't even respond with a "no." Just block and delete. Make sure friends and relatives do the same.

I wonder if it's possible under these circumstances to get a restraining order?

Maybe. My mother has a restraining order, due to him for a year.

He's crossed the line into stalking/harassment. Explore a restraining order.

[Anonymous]

Does he have a family of his own? Did he contract VD?

See this is why you shouldn’t have a parade of men through your kids’ lives

[Anonymous]

This sounds like stalking.

[Anonymous]

If he is reaching you via text is he changing his number? I would report this to the police in both your jurisdiction and your mother’s jurisdiction where she filed the restraining order. I would include the information that he is also trying to get to her and you through contacting others.

He’s created a fantasy in his head that you and your mother still belong to him. This is delusional at best and dangerous at worst.

[Anonymous]

Never ever respond. Document, block. Document, block. Talk to the police (and maybe a lawyer) about a restraining order. Document the last time you told him not to contact you.