When we had a disagreement and he stonewalled away and never resolved it or circled back. |
| Two pieces: you can fall in love with a good person, but have limited long term viability for a variety of reasons. Like me in my 20's. An intelligent and considerate guy, but very individualistic while I am much more straight laced. Thought he could never live a somewhat conventional lifestyle. Naturally he went on to a good career and has been married to the same woman for many years! |
Unfortunately this is 99% of available women. |
It seems many women do this to guys. In this day and age, until committed, all expenses should be split equally. Dating is a trial period for both, why should only one spend? |
| If you aren't sure after one year, don't waste someone's life. |
What ? Men are the ones typically who date around and don’t want commitment. I’m not splitting anything with a dude who might be seeing other women. When we become committed/exclusive then a fair contribution relative income and expenses is feasible (for large expenses). |
Women do what ? It’s highly overblown how women “use” men. In most cases it’s the men themselves who try dating and “buying” with dates much younger women who are just playing them or need for money |