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Anonymous wrote:When you & your sister are hanging out at your parents house, you just get up & go into your parents’ fridge & make something for just yourself?

In that situation, I’d ask my sister if she wants some too, & then you make it for both of you, & you can eat when hot. Usually it’s not much effort to make more of something at the same time. “Larla, I’m going to make some scrambled eggs, want some?”

My family always does this- if you’re making something/eating, you offer to everyone else in the vicinity. Actually it can be annoying, if you’re trying to lose weight (we’re Italian & everybody wants you to eat all the time, & also my mom & sisters are great cooks). It would be weird to me if my sister is in my parent’s living room & I get up and go in the kitchen & make something without saying a word to her.

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I can't imagine hanging out with my family and getting up to cook something without offering to make that thing for anyone else who wants it.

[Anonymous]

“Oh you’re doing it again; you’re talking about what I eat, that’s so obsessive and weird.”

“Oh you’re doing it again; you’re talking about what I eat, that’s so obsessive and weird.”

“Oh you’re doing it again; you’re talking about what I eat, that’s so obsessive and weird.”

[Anonymous]

She knows you're a push over and is taking advantage. Just say, Make your own.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:because when we hang out shell come in to the kitchen

Drinks, food everything.
I know this sounds crazy but what happens is ill have to replicate what i just made for myself for her and then my own food turns cold

so rude

How hard is it to make two plates?

Harder than it is to make and carry one.

[Anonymous]

Op, you need to grow up. You're an adult, take control of your emotions. You don't NEED to constantly hang out with your family if you don't want to. You don't need to be guilted by your sister because you don't make her food. The fact that you think this is something people go "no contact" over just highlights your immaturity.

[Anonymous]

Your coworkers are giving you a hard time because it's honestly exhausting listening to someone whine and complain about situations they put themselves in.

You: vent about your family
Them: ok so just don't go over there
You: but I HAVE to. You don't understand.

You really don't. Learn to stand up for yourself. Stop letting people walk all over you and control your emotions.